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she is mad but idk why?
My friend is mad at me but I don't know why. She got mad because I got back together with my boyfriend that I broke up with and she said this is all out of hand. Everytime she gets mad and tells me why she is mad I try and solve it and I end up sayign in the end that I am really sorry and I love you so much I don't want anything to come in between our relationship. Each time I say that she really seems not to care and she says you always say that junk. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just said I am okay and that's just to bad. I don't understand I DID NOT do anything to her at all. I want us to still be friends and we get in a lot of fights like maybe 2 or 3 a month and she starts mostly all of them actually all of them. I don't know if it is worth keeping the relationship or not I really want to but you know it might be for the best?? Help!
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Sweetie, you DO NOT deserve a friend like your friend who always gets mad at you for little things and that you two fight constantly. A friend should get mad at you and they should care about you and not seem to care about you when you two fight. If you've tried talking to her and that didn't help, then you just need to end this friendship or just stop talking to her because she needs to face the fact that she should be mad at you all the time and always fighting with you. When you apologized to her every time you are in a fight and she doesn't accept them, that shows you that she doesn't care about your friendship that much. If you want to keep this friendship with her, then you just need to ignore these fights and her getting mad at you and get used to them but you shouldn't do that.
-Karen
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maybe she thinks your boyfriend is bad for you. maybe she secretly likes him but doesn't want you to know.
the best thing that you, or anyone in your situation, could do is sit her down and ask her what's really going on. tell her that you're sick of having fights with her. i had to do this with one of my friends recently, and we've drifted a little, but we're still on better terms than we were before we talked through it.
if you don't ask for the story behind the story, you'll never know...
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Kinda seems like your friend wants you all to herself. Maybe shes just scared your going to forget about her and give all of your attention to your boyfriend. You dont need that from a "friend". Split your time up evenly between them, see how it goes for awhile..and if she is still doing the same thing when you give her your time..then maybe shes not being fair to you <-*
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i hate ppl like that. they always pick stupid arguments over the gayest shit l0l sry! but anyways tell her that it bugs you and that you still wanna be friends with her. ppl like her arent gonna change tho not to be rude or anything but if this always happens then i think you might wanna take a lil break from her and then later on try being friends with her and see if she changes. x0
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There are two ways to look at you situation.
1) No friends is ever worth giving up over a guy. Once you lose the trust and respect you had for a friend it's hard to gain it back. Friends are forever...boys are whatever (lol). The worst thing to do is fight over a guy who's valuse is less than half the value that your relationship with your best friends has.
2) Your friend is buggin. She needs to stop being bitchy and prissy about it and she should be happy for you. Maybe she is jealous that she doesn't have a bf like yours. If she starts fights with you then...its her problem.
****But then again. Question yourself. Why is she even getting mad in the first place. What does she have against your man. Unless....they were messing around together. And now she's is jealous that you guys go back out cause she knows she can never have him.
But most likely she is just being a bitch about it. She probably thinks you spend more time with him than her. And that you favor or prefer him over her. She could also feel neglected as friend and lonely. And possibly sad that you guys aren't maybe a close as you guys used to be before your boyfriend was added into the picture.
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Dear whomeva,
You should tell her that you belive that she should stop worring about your love life it concerns you and the boy.But if u dont wont to do that you should ask why she doesnt wont you to go out wit him or what is wrong with him.Hope i helped
Love
SaRaH
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well if she's like that she is just jealous..so just make new friends and she'll what she's missing and eventually come back to you!
hope i helped
♥ indeed2
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if she gets in all these fights with you when you didnt even do anything then she is not a good friend at all...and since youve already tried talking to her about it and she wont accept your appologies then there is not much yuo can do except try to just stop talking to her because you dont need a friend like that but if you really want to stay hyer friend then you could try and tolerate her being so mean to you...hope i could be of some help... <33 ~danni
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