I don't know what to say! Some people call me mean but they just confuse me being mean with me being a bitch. Yes I'll admit...I'm a BITCH!!!
But hey I embrace it. I love having fun and partying. And I don't care what people think of me. And although I'm honest (too honest at times) I still like giving advice to people who are in need of help.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: student/babysitter
Age: 14
AIM: nvme0212
MSN: nvme0212
Member Since: February 24, 2005
Answers: 12
Last Update: March 26, 2005
Visitors: 1720
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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me
i will rate 5's to any 1 who awenswers (link)
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You should say yes. Dont deny your feelings towards him. Since you guys are real good friends then your relationship should end up pretty good since you guys already probably know each other's likes and dislikes. But...before you say yes to him tell him that if one thing goes wrong in the relationship then its over and back to being just friends. Because if the situation gets worse and if you guys have a bad breakup then your friendship would be ruined too. Hope I helped ;>
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15/f-I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. Previously he was going out with my ex-best friend, whom i am at poor terms with as a direct result of my dating him. While i know i made a mistake by doing this, I don't regret ending the friendship for many personal reasons. Still, i can't escape her wrath. she tells our mutual friends and others, that i'm a whore or a slut or other related labels, when in reality i'm very near prude. What should i do to protect my reputation? I don't want one mistake to haunt me forever. thanks (link)
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Even though you dont regret ending your friendship with her you should heve never gone out with her ex. What you did is verry disrespectful. And she is being a jackass for calling you all those names. But think about it...if you and you bf breakup and you are crushed, and your current closest friend start going out with him...how would you react? Probably the same way your ex best friend did. And you should also think about if your bf is really worth all this trouble. I mean what kind of guy goes out with his ex's best friend....? Obviously not a good guy. There is not much you can do to save your reputation. I would tell you to avoid her and to not pay attention to her. And to act like you dont care and to not stoop down to her level...But then that would make me a hippocrite (I think i spelled that wrong, LOL). Cause I know if I were in your position I'd talk mad shit about her too. But then again if I were in her position I would probably call you a whore and a slut too (even if you arent ont). But even if this does make me sound hippocritical...you really shouldnt give a flying fuck about what she says. she's just mad jealous that you have him now and she doesnt. And to start a fight and to badmouth someone over a boy is stupid. And she's acting like a fucking loser. And remember ...she could bad mouth you all she wants but in the end....you are still gonna have your man. And she's not. Hope I helped a bit cause I know I didn't exactly answered your question how you would have probably liked, but anyways...Good Luck ;>
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me and my bf broke up last month. and i still really like him, he says he doesnt like me and when i try to get him to like me by like being all like touchy feely with him he is like stop i dont wanna like you again. but i want him to like me agin i cant find some1 i like just as much. we still talk on the phone for hours and we still hang out but what do i do?? i cant get over him but i dont really want to. how can i get him to like me again? (link)
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Ummm. I think you should stop trying to get him to like you. I mean he even asked you to stop. Obviously you guys are good friends. I dont know that many people that still hang out and talk on the phone wtih their ex's. If you guys broke up then something wasnt right in the relationship. So why do want to go down that same path all over again and drag him along. YOu shouldd leave hima lone and get over him. You can't revolve your whole life around him. And not to sound like a bitch or anything but you sound desperate. Like you would do anything to get him back. And acting like that will never get him to like you. Maybe if he sees you having fun without him, not missing him, and if you stop being all touch feely with him like you say then he will see what he is missing out on. ;>
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I am 13 and in the 8th grade. I am homeschooled and want to go back to school. I have been homeschooled since I was in the 6th grade (just in time to start Jr.High). I miss getting to hang out with all my friends from 5th grade. Yes, I've made friends through homeschool but it just not the same. I don't live a normal life. I mean I never have homework, i don't have to get up as early as my friends, If I want to I can extra school work and move up a grade, I'm even doing 9th grade History. My mom wants me to stay homeschooled, she has even tried to bribe me with a trip to Jersulem (which I really want to go there), but only if stay homeschooled all the way through school. I really want to go back to school, but I also want to stay homeschooled. What should I do???? (link)
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Hun, you should do what you know will make you happy. These are the days of your life. Middle school is an "ok" experience. But high school is a blast. There are so many different people. And you make new friends each day. Jerusulem will always be there but you only live once and trust me your teenage years are going to fly right past you. Even though you dont have to get up so early each morning (lucky you) its fun when you go to school and meet and greet those you are friends with. You should relly talk to your mom. And it is not right for her to bribe you to stay homeschooled. She's is just using Jerusulem as bait to get you to do what she wants. And if you have to bribed to get homeschooled than thats a sure sign that deep down you want to go back to school. Good Luck with your mom...;>
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My friend is mad at me but I don't know why. She got mad because I got back together with my boyfriend that I broke up with and she said this is all out of hand. Everytime she gets mad and tells me why she is mad I try and solve it and I end up sayign in the end that I am really sorry and I love you so much I don't want anything to come in between our relationship. Each time I say that she really seems not to care and she says you always say that junk. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just said I am okay and that's just to bad. I don't understand I DID NOT do anything to her at all. I want us to still be friends and we get in a lot of fights like maybe 2 or 3 a month and she starts mostly all of them actually all of them. I don't know if it is worth keeping the relationship or not I really want to but you know it might be for the best?? Help! (link)
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There are two ways to look at you situation.
1) No friends is ever worth giving up over a guy. Once you lose the trust and respect you had for a friend it's hard to gain it back. Friends are forever...boys are whatever (lol). The worst thing to do is fight over a guy who's valuse is less than half the value that your relationship with your best friends has.
2) Your friend is buggin. She needs to stop being bitchy and prissy about it and she should be happy for you. Maybe she is jealous that she doesn't have a bf like yours. If she starts fights with you then...its her problem.
****But then again. Question yourself. Why is she even getting mad in the first place. What does she have against your man. Unless....they were messing around together. And now she's is jealous that you guys go back out cause she knows she can never have him.
But most likely she is just being a bitch about it. She probably thinks you spend more time with him than her. And that you favor or prefer him over her. She could also feel neglected as friend and lonely. And possibly sad that you guys aren't maybe a close as you guys used to be before your boyfriend was added into the picture.
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ok, so i meet this guy online. i know what you are thinking....oohhh how dangerous, he could be a murderer...but hes not. i've talked to his friends and i know almost everything about him. i even quizzed him to make sure. he has become one of my really good friends. we always talk when he's online, but im not allowed to call him anymore. i always feel myself missing him when he isnt online, and i crave to talk to him so much. i think i like him, but i havent seen a picture of him, let alone seen his face. i live in new york and he lives in canada. i always talk about him, and it really annoys my friends. i know he is single, but how do i tell him i like him?? we always flirt...its obvious really, but i dont know how he feels about me. (link)
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Ummmm are you fucking kidding me? Did it ever occur to you that his friends might be lying. And since you have never met him let alone have seen him, how do you know he isn't somebody you already know. And I know you think that you really quizzed him and his boys but...honestly! And say he is the guy you say he is...if he wanted to meet you he probably would have said something like that by now. Open you eyes sweetie...you don't know the first thing about him. Don yourself and everyone else around you a huge favor and disconnect yourself from this dude (for all you know can be a chick). Try looking for a relationship with someone just a tad bit closer to home. Be safe...;>
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Okay here it goes... i rarely ask questions.. but I really need some advice right now... I have this boyfriend and I really like him... but I also have this one guy on my mind and I have liked this one guy for about 1 year already.. well i see him every once in a while... and we kiss and hold hands and stuff and no i havent done that since going out with my boyfriend... but i can't get him off of my mind... and I really like him and i think he likes me too i mean he holds my hand and kisses me and stuff like that.. but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend... what do you think I should do.. thanks i will rate high (link)
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I was going to make a great big list of pros abd cons. I mean I personally wouldn't break up with my man for someone else but messin around and having fun wouldn't kill him. Anyways...I came across this little quote and maybe it will make some ok ok a lot of sense to you.
*Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love*
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s. (link)
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Yes!!! It's definitely ok to have sex on your period. It might be messy...well I have never tried it. On the brightside there is no chance in hell you are getting pregnant. But you should still tell your man to wear a condom. Just because you have your period doesn't mean you can't get an STD of STI. Have fun...;>
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does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high (link)
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First and foremost try getting more sleep. Dark cirlcles under eyes is a definte sign that you are not getting enough rest. As for products I know for a fact that LOREAL (I think that is how it is spelled...lol) has a "circle eraser" cream. I'm not sure of the price but I know its probably under $15 but over $5. It's pretty good but sometimes it takes more than enough time to see results. A more faster and 100% more effective product is by LANCOME. Which can be found at any department store like Macy*s and Sterns. But this is a lot more costly. And I mean a lot more. As far as home remedies go...I have yet to find one that actually works and is effective. I hope I have helped...Good luck on your quest to finding a dark circle eraser. ;>
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ok i have a really bad cold and im coughing and sneezing constantly but i want to know if that affects your vaginal discharge its been heavy lately and i want to know why..i had my period 2 weeks ago so i know its not that..help! (link)
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I'm sorry to say that I really honestly do not have an answer for your question. :( You having a cold could have something to do with it, but I have never heard of those kind of symptons before. You should ask you mom, friend, or another close relative of yours. Either way you should definately go to a gynocologist to make sure nothing is wrong. Get ummm better I guess ;> !
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okay, me and this guy, robbie, started talking as friends at the beginning of the year, okay, so we became pretty good friends too! but then, my teacher permanatly seperated us because we talked too much! and that was the only class i had with him because he is a senior and im a freshman. so, my sister just came to my school, and is becoming friends with him, and she is always telling him something embarassing about me, or something like.. " becky said you look bad today " you kno? anything that will make him not like me. and so, he completly stopped talking to me, and it really sucks because i had started to like him. and now she came home today and was like.. " hey becky, robbie thinks you hate him!" and i want to yell at her because its her fault.. but i feel bad.. i dont know what to do!! please dont delete.. i need help soo bad!! (link)
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One of my closest friends was in the same situation that you are in now, so I pretty much going to tell you what I told her. Usually I would say instead of yelling at you sister try talking to her, but I have a sister and I know that "talking" to her wouldn't help one bit. But in some way or the other (depending on your sister. I obviously don't reallly know you siser, but if yelling is the only way to get the point across...)get the point across that it really did bother youe when she told him embarassing things about you. And tell her that you are sure she wouldn't like it if you went to the guy she like and said mean things. Now to the guy part (the main part) you have to be the one to go up to him and tell him that you didn't say those things. He probably won't believe you so be prepared to be yelled, turned down, and walked away from. But if he is a good guy then he will believe you. Either way let him know that you like him and you really don't know what you sister was thinking when she said those things to him. If he really is a good guy and sincere he will believe you. If he doesn't then...it's definately his lose. Hope I helped. Good Luck ;>
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I like this guy i work with so much it hurts. He tells me all his personal stuff about his family and and his ex giirl fiend.We have a lot in common. He even gave me a mix CD. I give him free potato chips from the store that i work in. He always seems happy to see me. When he walks in he has a great big cool aid smile on his face. But there is a problem he never asked for my phone #. What's with that. I am way to shy to ask him for his. My question is does this guy like me? Or does he see me as just as a friend what am i doing wrong? how do i get him to take me seriously? (link)
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I think this guy that you like only thinks of you as a friend. Yea...he tells you about all his personal stuff and he gave you a CD. But that's what friends do. Maybe he thinks that if he were to ask for your number or try to go out with you he'll be ruining the friendship he has with you. Another thing (you probably wont like this one) maybe he just doesn't like you. Maybe he really doesn't picture himself dating you. Either way ...you should ask him for his number. Instead of trying to go out with him become a better friend. Actually hang out with him outside the store you work in. If when you ask him for his number a wierd look is on his face just say that you would like to hang out some time. You don't necessarily have to let him know that you like him right then and there.
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