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me and my bf broke up last month. and i still really like him, he says he doesnt like me and when i try to get him to like me by like being all like touchy feely with him he is like stop i dont wanna like you again. but i want him to like me agin i cant find some1 i like just as much. we still talk on the phone for hours and we still hang out but what do i do?? i cant get over him but i dont really want to. how can i get him to like me again?
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ok i no that u propably dont want to but tell him how u fell when yall r alone or on the phone! it might help him get y yall should get back together and maybe he will have a second opinon.
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You probably can't.He's told you how he feels so don't bug him or you'll make him mad sooner or later. You will have to be happy just being friends.If you keep bothering him though you may lose the friendship too.Just stay friends and if he's going to change his mind one day he will let you know.
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I am so sorry to be blunt with you hun, but you sound really desperate. You have done everything you can possibly think of to get your ex to like you, and he still rejects you. He doesn't have any intentions involving you other then to be your friend. You can't throw yourself all over a guy, and expect him to want you when he has no interest in you. He has told you out right that he doesn't want to like you again, so why do you still pursue him? I suggest that you stop talking on the phone with <b>him</b> for hours, and find <b>another guy</b> that is interested in you to talk on the phone with. It is best that you leave him alone, and find someone who is more deserving of your time.
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You probably wont want to hear this but hun, u cant force someone to like you. You might like him a lot and he probably has feelings for u but if he doesnt want to be with you then thats that. Its alright to not find anyone else to like at this point. It will take a while to get over him but you will. You'll find another great guy like him. Good Luck hun.
~Brina~
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That sucks and Im sorry! I know this sucks but you cant make him like you again! Dont try pressuring him into liking you .. which I dont think you are. Keep flirting ,hanging out, talking on the phone. Maybe he would start to fall for you again. The best thing is to try to move on. I dont think you really want to because you love him so much. Go out with your friends and meet new guys. Keep yourself busy so you dont think about him!! But a while ago the only way I got over the guy I liked was not talking to him or seeing him but I know you wouldnt want that! x0 ` t3za
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Mabe he doesnt want to go out with you, and he might just see you as a friend dont be so touch feely he might not like it. just be you
luv roxie
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Hey I know how you feel and all I can say is give the guy some distance. For all you know he could be seeing someone else now. You are lucky he is still your friend most people don't want anything to do with their ex. (Not saying you are a bad person by the way) In a while you will start to get over him and you will see you won't be that interested anymore so I say just keep busy. If you need anything else just ask would love feedback as well.
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well maybe he likes you and he doesnt want to admit it
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Ummm. I think you should stop trying to get him to like you. I mean he even asked you to stop. Obviously you guys are good friends. I dont know that many people that still hang out and talk on the phone wtih their ex's. If you guys broke up then something wasnt right in the relationship. So why do want to go down that same path all over again and drag him along. YOu shouldd leave hima lone and get over him. You can't revolve your whole life around him. And not to sound like a bitch or anything but you sound desperate. Like you would do anything to get him back. And acting like that will never get him to like you. Maybe if he sees you having fun without him, not missing him, and if you stop being all touch feely with him like you say then he will see what he is missing out on. ;>
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