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Okay here it goes... i rarely ask questions.. but I really need some advice right now... I have this boyfriend and I really like him... but I also have this one guy on my mind and I have liked this one guy for about 1 year already.. well i see him every once in a while... and we kiss and hold hands and stuff and no i havent done that since going out with my boyfriend... but i can't get him off of my mind... and I really like him and i think he likes me too i mean he holds my hand and kisses me and stuff like that.. but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend... what do you think I should do.. thanks i will rate high
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If you don't want to hurt your boyfriend or want him to find out that you have feelings for this guy, then you need to dump him because it's not fair for him that your feelings for him aren't true, since you like this guy. If you like this guy more than your boyfriend, then you should give him a chance, after your feelings for your boyfriend are gone. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and that you think that you should dump him, since you don't want to hurt him and yourself.
-Karen
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tell both of them how you feel and the one kid if he likes you and just follow your heart you will do the right thing just take sometime and think!! good luck !!!!
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I was going to make a great big list of pros abd cons. I mean I personally wouldn't break up with my man for someone else but messin around and having fun wouldn't kill him. Anyways...I came across this little quote and maybe it will make some ok ok a lot of sense to you.
*Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love*
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well if your boyfriend really cares for you he'll understand...heck he might even like another girl, so that'll make it better!
hope i helped
♥ indeed2
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Make a list of pro's and con's, that might give you some insight as to who you should be with----Spike
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well it seems as if you relaly like both these guys but as we all know you can only choose one...you have to think about all the conciquences, good and bad, about what you...you could end up duping your current boyfriend for this other guy and then have a bad relationship with this other guy and then want your boyfriend back...and whos knows , he may not take you back...its really hard to be tron between 2 guys but you just have to decide which one you feel more comfortable with...good luck!! hope i help in some way.... <33 ~danni
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First, before you do anything you need to talk to this one guy and find out what his intentions are, if you break up with your boyfriend is he willing to have a long- term relationship with you ( or short-term whichever you prefer) and if he is then you need to carefully let your boyfriend down because your happiness is important also and you cant lead your boyfriend on any longer or it will hurt more for him.Dont tell him about this guy when your breaking up with him it will make him feel as if you were sneaking around behind his back, and dont go public with your relationship until at least a week has passed.
hope this has helped :)
xoOx - michelle <33
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its relly not fair to your boyfriend if you like this other guy. you have to sit down and really think about what you want. no one can make the decision for you.
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If you like this guy more than you do your b/f, and you enjoy being around him more than you do your b/f, then I think it's time to let your boyfriend go and move on. Tell him politely that you just want to be friends and you hope he feels the same way. Tell him that you still like him, just as a friend and you hope that yall can still be tight! ( BUT!! If you don't want to break up with your b/f just yet, then make sure the other boy really does like you and he's not playing you!)
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Well i can relate to this.. okay over the summer i had a boyfriend and liked him alot but then there was this other guy *my bf now* well i was so comfort by him and loved talkin to him all the time and not my boyfriend and couldnt stop thinkin bout him and i felt really bad but i got to the point where i didnt care anymore an then i dumped him to go with *my bf now* me and him have held good for 8 months now.. and the other guy is still a good friend of mine.. so maybe you could see whats up with the guy you cant get off your mind and see if he wants more then kissing and holding hands but maybe find that out soon too,, and also if he does and you rather be with him then the guy your with then go for it cause it really sounds like you and this other guy like eachother way more then you like the boy you go with now.. but like i said talk to him and see..much luv dez
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well you dont wanna hurt your boyfriend, or he might never talk to you again. but think. who do you really love more? your bf, or the guy you like thats isn't your bf. if you wanna go out wit the other guy break up with your bf, but wait a bit b4 asking the other guy out. because your bf will think oyu were cheatin on him the whole time and might like try to attack you and your or lover guy man dude person. i hope i helped.
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It's pretty selfish to have a boyfriend and want another one at the same time. They are living people, after all, not objects. If you don't want to hurt your boyfriend, break up with him now. It will hurt a lot less than if he heard a rumor that you were cheating on him, even if you weren't. Be honest, but not too honest. Just say that you need a break from the dating scene, which is true. Try being single for a while and don't think about who to go out with.
Best of luck!
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