ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me
xOalmaOx answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:39 pm: well hunnie.. if yu lyke him go out with him! if yu dont like him its better if yu tell him i just dont like yu that way yur too close to me!! but i think i know why yu dont wanna say yes.. because yur afraid if yu guys break up it will ruin yur friiendship because yur so close.. ya i know how yu fe3L.. just talk to him about it!! tell him that yu dont want things to get ruined .. yu know! hOpe ii helped!! [ xOalmaOx's advice column | Ask xOalmaOx A Question ]
heykris10 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 4:04 pm: make it straight to him that if yall went out yalls relationship as friends might change.And make him promiss you that when or if yall break up it wont change it will go back to normal! [ heykris10's advice column | Ask heykris10 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:29 pm: go out with him.You'd go out with a girlfriend and think nothing about it.A friend that happens to be a boy is no diffrent.You don't have to be romantically attatched to go out on a date or be friends with boys.Who knows, you might find you like dating him! [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
BreTTChezzey20 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:09 pm: Well if you like him tell him you like him...if you dont then tell him you should tell him how you feel inside about him....
Teza answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:07 pm: This is difficult! You want to go out with him but then you dont. I think that you could give it a try and see what happens. If you dont want to then just tell him that you rather stay friends because hes more of a brother to you and you dont wanna screw anything up. x0 ` t3za .. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:21 pm: You should say yes, if you have known him all your life then he obiously means more to you that anyother lad. You can trust him because of the fact you have known him for ages. Try going out and see if it works if it does good on you if it doesnt then you can still be best friends cant you.
good luck
nvme21 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:13 pm: You should say yes. Dont deny your feelings towards him. Since you guys are real good friends then your relationship should end up pretty good since you guys already probably know each other's likes and dislikes. But...before you say yes to him tell him that if one thing goes wrong in the relationship then its over and back to being just friends. Because if the situation gets worse and if you guys have a bad breakup then your friendship would be ruined too. Hope I helped ;> [ nvme21's advice column | Ask nvme21 A Question ]
xosugarnspicexo answered Saturday March 26 2005, 11:28 am: going out with him may ruin your friendship, but you may also be a great couple. You should give it a try the next time he asks you out and if it doesnt work out make sure you stay friends. I think you should give it a try because he obviously really likes you. [ xosugarnspicexo's advice column | Ask xosugarnspicexo A Question ]
hottdancer134 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:38 am: Well if you know him well than next time he asks I say go for it! Hope this helps!!!
orangebabi0669 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:14 am: If you go out with him and say you got into a fight or something and you break up, then you will possibly lose your friendship with each other. Talk to him about it and say what if we went out then broke up or something what would happen to our friendship? Then again maybe it would work out because they say that friends become the best of lovers. Just talk to him about it and I am sure that will help you both. Good luck!! [ orangebabi0669's advice column | Ask orangebabi0669 A Question ]
vchicka15 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:10 am: well he already likes you more than a friend and he probably will no matter what.. so you mind as well go out with him.. if you guys break up you can still be friends.. or if you want you can be friends with benefits and not go out.. which is basically doing the stuff couples do but not being "official". if you like him you should say yes [ vchicka15's advice column | Ask vchicka15 A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday March 26 2005, 9:59 am: Going out with him may ruin your friendship with him, since you've known him for half of your like but since he's the one that wants to go out with you, then go out with him because that's a different thing. If it doesn't work out or if you feel weird, then break up with him but you should give yourself a chance with him.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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