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Where do i start?
I dont even know where to start. I'm 19/f I've just recently lost my job, me and mom are arguing all the time now i've just lost my boyfriend (He does say hes not sure what he wants, his hearts telling him to stay then his head and family are saying leave) He has dumped me though. I cry all the time and feel down. How can i pick my self back up i dont want to be depressed. I do have a history of self harm and dont want to go back. Please please help. :-(
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find a fucking job and get another boyfriend
its called a beginning of adulthood before a midlife crisis crisis
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Best advice I can give you...get back up. Make a list of potential jobs and go for it. Forget the boyfriend...if he was really meant to be with you he'll come back in his own time. Don't push him because we all know eventually, in most sensible men, the heart always wins.
About your Mother...get on her level. Don't argue back. You know who you are, what you do and where you stand. Revolve your world around yourself and the success you know you can achieve rather then your mother, your boyfriend and a lost job. They only bring you down.
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you should talk to someone about that well first you should talk to your mom about arguing with her and sort something out and as for the other things maybe you should go to counseling or something to talk to someone if you cant talk to anyone else like your friends and family and as for your ex-boyfriend you should tell him how you feel well i hope i helped good luck
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this is a very serious problem here...hurting yourself aint gonna help anything but it will make situations even worse...im not sure i cant do too much for you on this one excpt tell you that god put you on this earth to live a good life and not to harm yourself in anyway so just try and do things like extra curricular activities it may help.....<33 ~danni
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I am usually depressed alot to but then I went to a mental health consilour to talk to about that stuff they really help and then you could tell someone how you feel or maybe you could make a journal with all your thoughts
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Hey hun... I am kind of like the same way.. what I do is make a schedule for my every day so I'm always busy and not having time to be depressed fill your day with the stuff you need and want to do. Trust me this works.. then at night before you go to bed.. journal you day.. It helps.. If you see your ex-boyfriend around town or he calls you act like everything is okay.. you never know maybe he will come back to you... hope i helped keep me updated lots of luck
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Hey there sweetheart. Well Id say screw him. You need to do whats best for you and hes not helping. Your job can be fixed. Go get a new one. Thats that easy. Next off, Talk with your mom. Dont yell just talk. Just let it work its way into a conversation and dont yell.
Signed
The Football Prep
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Try to do something fun with your friends. I know alot of people who get so depressed because of boyfriends. Go do something with your friends and DONT talk about him or else it will make you more depressed. Go to the movies or just do something fun<< it will work!
good luck:)
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