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Okay, this is long, and only reply with good advice.
I'm sixteen years old, and I'm in a long distance relationship. (I'm a girl.) I mean long distance. I used to live in Mississippi, but my parents moved to California about a year ago. I met this guy through my sister, they were really good friends when we lived there, and we completely hit it off. We've been together for a year now, and I fly out there every chance I get. I mean things were serious, he has bought me a ring and everything, and we always talked about how we were gonna get married, how many children we'd have, etc. Lately, things have been kind of rough. He gets so angry with me about everything I say, and it gets scary. I admit, sometimes I do bring it on myself, but he always gets entirely too pissed. Tonight, I was talking to him about my friend, and he kept talking about how ugly and disgusting she is, and I asked him if when we broke up, he said that same stuff about me. He got completely pissed off, said I was fucking someone out here, and that I was a liar, and all I ever do is start shit with him. Well, we broke up. I'm feeling really fucking alone and empty right now. I just need to know how to feel better.. I can't stop thinking about it and I'm going insane. I want him back so fucking badly, he's my best fucking friend in the whole world and I really, really, REALLY am hurting. I thought we would make up, so I didn't take it seriously, and then his mom made him get off the phone, and I just knew it was over. I was crying really badly, and I told him and I hated him and I wished that he was dead. I regret it so fucking much, but he's not gonna care. Please, just give me some advice on how to get over him, or get him back and stop pissing him off, or something.
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wow..thats a bad situation to be in! maybe you can talk to him about everything if there is a way! go out and have a good time and try to forget about everything! its going to take some time to get over him. take a surprise visit out here (whenever possible) and show up at his house and tell him how you feel. sorry if i wasnt of much help!
~*Sarah*~
where at in MS did you used to live? i live down here in ocean springs/biloxi!
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If it makes you feel any better he was probably cheating on you, with your "ugly and disgusting" friend.
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Well, I think your relationship is kinda over. But you could try to get it back and tell him that you didn't mean anything and you were just asking him a question didn't mean I wanted to brake up. Tell him the truth and be honest with him. Tell him you love him dearly and you really don't want to lose him. But maybe losing him might be for the best you know? Sometimes friends and bf and gf get to close like in relationship wise and then they start fighting and stuff and braking the relationship is sometimes for the best. I hope I helped And tell me how it goes.>3 ~Chrissie
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dear long distance relationship,
getting over him will take a while but you have to think, god has a plan for you. maybe his plan was for you to marry someone else, but who knows? he could come around and say he wasn't being himself, but you shouldn't call him back. if its been around a few weeks or even a month, call him and say, "Ive been thinking," tell him how you really feel, don't get into anything really about you, try to talk about him and what's been going on in his life, talk about school, his friends, movies, whatever has been going on. DON'T talk about your break-up. try and be sensitive. good luck
((shortie*))
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it's probably because u never finished the convorsation. u should call him to talk to him about it.
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he sounds like an asshole sometimes but if you really like him try talking to him one more time and see if that will help. he should be apologizing to you not you saying sorry but if you want to make things better between you 2 then talk to him and tell him how you feel! x0
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wait till he comes back to you
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go out there and talk 2 him or just try and live life and find someone new. maybe you and him wernt ment 2 be.
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Trust me when I say this, I know how you feel. I do. I wont go into detail here but leave one in my inbox with your im or email. We can talk about it.. Look, all I can say is you'll get over him. Because I got over my long distance thing and yes it took time..but I think with help and encouragement from me...you can get through this. i dont really like to talk about it publicly so please contact me and i will help you out!
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