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Well, see I was at my friend's house and I didn't like my boyfriend at the time so i broke up with him with my friend. I was happy and stuff. But as soon as I broke up with him i felt really bad because I didn't only brake up with him I was mean and rude to him. The next day I talked to him and he said he stayed up the whole night crying and he was praying that I would come back to him. I did go back to him because I relized I did like him and it just took awhile to relize it. So now we are going out again and things are better then ever. Except, I told my best friend and she said alot of things like she said that why did you brake up with him if you didn't like him. I said I didn't like him at the time and it just took me awhile to relize it. Also she said alot of guys like me because I am "Hott" but she said by the way you aren't. That got me mad 1 because not all the guys like me because I am "Hott" they like me for other reason also. And 2 because how could by best friend say that to me that I am not pretty. I was mad and I don't know why she said that. What should I do? She also said alot more and she wasn't to happy. I think she is mad at me now and I don't know what to do?? Help!
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It definitely sounds like your friend is jealous of you because you always have a boyfriend and can get one, whereas she can't and that is the reason why she told you that you aren't pretty. She probably also has a crush on this guy and she is mad that you got another chance with him when she can't even go out with anyone. It's alright that you are mad at this because you should be; a best friend should never be jealous at you, just because you can get a boyfriend and she can't. You need to talk to her somehow and ask her if she is jealous of you. Explain how you feel about this to her and tell her that it was wrong for her to say you weren't pretty when a lot of people think you are.
-Karen
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She was probably jealous that she isn't "hot" and can't get a man. I think you should either get over that bitch, or tell her that you think she needs to stop her whining. Besta Luck
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Sit her down and talk to her, confront her----Spike
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it seems to me that your friend as a big case of jelousey...when she says all that stuff she is just trying to make you think that you shouldnt be with him and it seems as if she is trying to breake you 2 up...she does not seem like a very good friend at all..you have to talk to her and ask her if she likes him and tell her that she is not being a very good firend lately and mabe she will open up...hope i helped in some way <33
~danni
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as much as we hate to admit it, boys are more sensative then we think. as for your friend, shes a bitch. im sorry, but she is. if she cant respect any of your boyfriends, she isnt worth it. i mean, if my friend ever said that to me, i would never forgive her. a best friend would never say that no matter what.
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Sounds like your friend might have a crush on the guy and she is jealous that you got him.. TWICE! Or she might be upset because she feels like you always get the guys and she doesnt! Either way your friend is a slight bit jealous of you and she is tired of you being the " Hott" girl.
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Maybe she is mad at you for what you did to the guy you go with now.. maybe she is jealous of you.. i mean i think if she gon bust out and say shit like that then she isnt your friend.. but maybe talk to her and ask her calmly why she said that and why she is so mad could be *p.m.s* jus playin.. but i hope the best of luck and hope i helped..much luv dez
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i think she likes your man. and wants you to leave him so she can have him. thats why she's dissing you so much and is telling you all this bad stuff. i think you should kick outta your life. all she doin is tryin to ruin it. its not your fault if shes mad anyways. shes makin herself mad by bringing it up. so you might wanna kick her outta your life until she stops and isn't so mean to you.
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well its realli ur problem who your going out with not your friends and if she doesnt like that tahn too bad.
and if your best friend said that your not hott than shes not a real friend, she probably thinks that she is better than you, which is not how a friend should act, even if she thinks that its not nice saying it to a person 1st its rude 2nd its harsh and 3rd its not polite. so you should talk to your friend and tell her that your going out with the person you like not the person she thinks is better.
hope i helped. let me know how things go.
xoxo amore
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