Hey im 16, and iv had sex alittle over a few times. It seems that almost every time i have sex, I get these weird pains in my stomach (almost like his thing is puncturing my insides), what is this? Can i fix it?
karenR answered Monday March 7 2005, 9:35 am: You should go see a obgyn. Sex should NOT be painful.Seeing how other young girls have answered you I hope they see this too.It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you but it is not the way it should be. I would hate for you to go through life thinking it was supposed to be painful.The first time it might be but after that no. If he is to large (extremely rare by the way...Babys do get out fine!)It might be uncomfortable but shouldn't cause pain. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Sunday March 6 2005, 8:25 pm: If you're boyfriend is penitrating his penis too far into you and he's big, it's basically his penis putting pressure onto your cervix which is causing the pain. You could have him not go in all the way which will pretty much stop the pain. Other than that there is no way to "fix" it. It's quite normal for all women to feel that pain when they have sex. When I lost my virginity, the same thing happened to me, it's very normal for it to be happening. You might also get this weird feeling like right by the top of your butt like a stinging kind of a feeling and that's pretty much all the same thing and it's normal. If the pain is unbearable for you, tell your boyfriend not to do it that hard and not to go in that deep. Be safe! Hope this helped. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 7:24 pm: hey i get pains in my stomach too like during it but not like im gettin punched i think my boyfriend like squishes my ribs cause im alot smaller then him.. but um if i was you i think i would try to be on top.. but um maybe you aint real open and that might change and you will begin to like it after that..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Browny4541 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 6:37 pm: It could be nervous pains, (which it probably is) You could need to have your appendix taken out, or you could be having guilt or sympathy pains. You could also be having your period, and you could be having cramps. [ Browny4541's advice column | Ask Browny4541 A Question ]
powertrash answered Sunday March 6 2005, 6:34 pm: Is it right around your bellybutton? He's probably hitting your cervix. The best way to prevent this is to take it a little slower and don't thrust as deeper/harder. [ powertrash's advice column | Ask powertrash A Question ]
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