Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 10:44 pm
so i was at school to day well pretty much like i am everyday and i realised that i really dont have any close friends sure ive got friends but no close friends i should really change that you no.but i dont know how
FunnyCide answered Friday February 25 2005, 2:43 pm: Take a friend that you already have, and talk alot to them. (Without being annoying lol) Confide in them, invite them over, throw parties, give gifts, talk on the phone, talk on the computer... you get the idea. Just tell them stuff, and they'll pretty soon become closer to you. It's not really as simple as it sounds, but that's really all I can say to do.
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XoAlexandra answered Friday February 25 2005, 11:04 am: HA, its kinda funny that you should mention that, because I'm basically stuck in the same ditch as you. I only have one really close friend and that is my boyfriend, the rest, to me, are just an acquaintance, but I kinda like it this way. I say they are actually friends if we hang out, talk online/ on the phone every now and then. My suggestion to you is ask a few of your Friends if they wanna hang out sometime, or go shoping or something. BOND! Have fun. Then they will probably start asking you if you want to hang out more. So try that, and if that doesn't work then leave one in my inbox, and I will help you again.
AskMuni answered Friday February 25 2005, 12:30 am: I went through the same thing a couple of months ago-kind of like I had a lot of friends that i got along with and talked to but at the end of the day i didn't have someone that i could truly count on.
Honestly, this is something that a lot of people go through. Be patient. It takes time to find a really good friend that you can laugh and cry with and a lot of times you'll might have a friend that considers you a close friend and you don't even know it.
But, if you really want to change the fact that you don't have any close friends, try hanging out more with just a confined number of people rather than a lot of people. Go to the movies and just hang out-you'll find a close friend in no time. [ AskMuni's advice column | Ask AskMuni A Question ]
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