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14/m i kinda like this girl but i don't know if i want to go to go out with her. The reason i don't want to go out with her is that i don't know what my friends will think. I know that sounds bad but i don't know if i can choose her over keeping my reputation with my friends. I think she might ask me out and i don't know what to do. please help.
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Ok well first of all you cant depend on what your friends will think all your life. I mean one of these days if you still have your friends and you really like this woman alot... you worry about what your friends think? the girl will definatly ditch you.
But ok... if you like her ask her out cause there might only be one chance with her. Don't worry to much about what your friends think. If they're true friends they wont care about what kinda girl you got.
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dont listen to your so called friends its your life & always follow your heart
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Hey well first off you shouldnt care what your friends think of her. I mean yeah there your friends but shes just one chick you like and theres gonna be more. And if you like her then go out with her. Dont say no to her because then the reason why you wouldnt go out with her will come out and no girl will want to do out with you. so just go out with her and find out i mean so what they might not like her but its not like there gonna really care.
Hope i have helped
Jaymi Lynne
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It really doesn't matter what your friends think; just because she may ruin your reputation with your friends, it would be mean if you didn't ask her out. Would you rather go out with a girl because you like her or would you rather not go out with her, just because your reputation with your friends will change? If you like her and if she likes you, then go out with her and ignore your friends with what they think and say because you are the only one who can make the choices in your life and no else can. When she does ask you out, say yes but make sure you like her.
-Karen
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When she asks you out make sure that you LIKE her. If you do like her now then i think that you should give it a chance, i mean, everyone deserves one. Dont you think? LOL! Honestly, i kno that you MAY have a reputation, but that doesnt mean that you would lose your friends. Come on, if either one of your friends liked a girl that you wouldnt exactly approve of, you wouldnt stop them from going out with whomever they wanted to go out with, right? So, they shouldnt tell you who you can and can not go out with.
I just think you should give that special girl a chance (if you like her).
hope i helped sweetie
sam
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Where have a heard this scenario before?
If you really like this girl and you guys "click" , i think that you should definetely ask her out. Your friends don't have a right to control your life and they shouldn't have an influence on your decision about this girl. If you are taking your reputation into consideration, your being really unfair to her because then you'd be basically leading her on. Reputation has nothing to do with it...if you like a girl...just go for it!
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