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Alright, I'm 16 and I have been dating my bf for about 2 and 1/2 weeks. Everything has been going pretty good. I feel like I've known him forever and we are falling head over heels for eachother. His family loves me and my family loves him. It's been perfect. But it seems that everytime we hang out little things bug me about him. Like his friends for example. Most of them play girls and he acts a little different around me when they are with him. Another thing I don't care for is that he can be pretty insensitive about my feelings and is pushy about things. He says and does things and doesn't think about how it might be taken the wrong way. Like yesterday my twin sister pissed him off so he kiddingly yelled at her and then when she said a sarcastic comment back he went over to her, turned her over, and started punching and slapping her ass real hard. And I found it extremely weird and inappropriate because whenever I think of someone grabbing, slapping, or punching someones ass its usually someone they are into, because he does the same thing when we play fight. So it totally disgusted and pissed me off. When he did that it made me offended and mad. My last bf would walk by girls at the mall when I was with him and smack their ass but I never said anything about how it annoyed and upset me because I figured that if I let out how I felt that it might screw things up. Even today we got in a sort of fight over the way things were going between us. As in how fast we were moving physically. It is always me who intiates these small skirmishes and that's what worries me. Most of the issues I have with him happen because I have been through alot of shit with guys in the past and I try to protect myself by not putting up with shit. I just don't want to be the person that fights about shit all the time and feels like an overreacter. But I know that if I keep things to myself that it will end up building up and building up and the issues will never get solved. So is there any way that I can relieve these issues without feeling like I might be causing my relationship to self-destruct? (link)
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your not comfortable with him. you are just NOT. that's not good AT ALL. you need to DEFINATLY get him straight he should never touch another girl, especially your twin sister! c'mon girl, you can't be that dumb!
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There is a guy that I like and I’ve never kissed before and I was thinking of going for a French kiss if I get to kiss him, but then I though about it and I started wondering if it’s a turn off for guys if you French kiss them on the first kiss. Can you, please, give me your opinion? And my second question is, do guys judge you on the way you kiss, is it very important to them if you are a good kisser or not? (link)
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It's in no way a turn off to french a boy on the first kiss but you shouldn't anyway. Keep him waiting for it, tell him if he wants it to get it. Play around with him it'll make anything last longer & seem more cute. YES they judge the way you kiss and if you're bad his friends are going to know too.
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There's this boy I like and we're close, but I can't tell if we are just friends. We talk on the phone and on the internet alot, and hang with eachother at school but still, alot of the times, it seems like we're friends. He's really sweet to me, and not anyone else. And about twice, we were talking and he had a boner. I'm not sure if that makes any difference though. The point is, I really want to make a move but first, I want to know if it sounds like he's interested, or if we're just friends.
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what's your last name?
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this is my proplem my crush asked out my best friend and i really like him this guy is my ex he has been my boyfriend 2 times he really likes my friend so what should i do assk him out or what?
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He's your friend's boyfriend. What's your problem?
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my friend has a crush on the same guy i like but she doesnt know i like him and i dont want to tell her cuz im afraid if he finds out then we wont be like best friends anymore i really really like him and now i think that shes gonna ask him out im dont know wut to do i really like this guy!!!!!!
MaDlY iN LoVe!!! (link)
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What's your name?
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ok well i just got a email form this really hot girl i mean holy nuts man. but i have a girlfriend already but its going kinda rough so should i sak out the hot girl or stay in a bad realation ship? ill rate high (link)
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STAY WiTH YOUR GiRLFRiEND !!
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im prude and so not happy with it. im 13 and most of my friends r not prude and im like so jealous that guys r all over them when i truy think im prettier or just as hott.i really dont wanna have sex or ne thing i just wanna make out with a guy.thanks (link)
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i`m 13 too, and some of my friends are prude. well i`m not .. definatly not .. but it's a bad thing. get MORE guys to go to the movies and cuddle like crazy everywhere. Don`t make yourself easy but give them a pop kiss while laying on them or something. Soon a guy will makeout with you .. and then have fun with the rest of your life .. ii apreciate feedback thnxx xxOo
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ok... i was at my friends house and we were just watching TV you know.. just hanging out...well we were like extra bored so we sat on her bed askin each other stupid questions..like what have you donse wiht a boy.. or girl or w/e but i noticed she keeped on asking questions bout girls like... would you ever make out with a girl.. stuff like that... well after that we were jus looking at each other for some reson and she kissed me.. then we stared making out and doing some other things.. but the problem is..if you didnt already know im a girl...i dont know what to do i cant look at her the same but she acts like nothin happend..dose this make me a lesibean?? i dont think i liked it but thenagina im confused right now.. what do you think?? sorry its so long btw
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No, you are not a lesbian.. haha .. don't worry. She might be though or bisexual. That's not rare though I know alot of bisexual/lesbian girls it's just the same and I know they would never hit on me. It's sometimes good because I can ask them how I look in outfits.. hehe. I myself am all for guys but I have madeout with a girl before also. It was during a game thing it wasn't a big deal and you shouldn't feel uncomfortable around her. You are still straight unless you like her or have attraction to her or other girls. It's all your choice. If you are still straight any enjoyment from making out with her probably just came from curiousity of making out with a girl. No big deal at all.. just relax and don't tell anyone about it just people you trusts because you wouldn't want things said about you or her. I appreciate feedback.. xxOo
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Hey so I liked this guy alot and he liked me but I got scared because i was really young and so i started being mena to him and i was awful and said horrible things to him and he is the nicest guy ever but he got a girlfriend and alot of people think he's creepy but he's not and he's very loyal and and she recently cheated on him and i don't know what to do because he is like dying of misery. they were really close but she never liked him she was using him. I feel bad and i want him and all these weird coinsedences keep happening and i have never felt this way before
What can I do? PLEASE help!
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Hopefully since his relationship doesn't seem to be going good at all they will break up. If not just help him out by talking to him and making him feel better, say things to him you think he would say to you in that situation. If they do break up which they should if she cheats, regularly ask him if hes over her, likes someone else, and who he has his eye on. He probably still has feelings for you just get him to admit them. I apprecuate feedback.. thnx xxOo
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I went out with a guy for 3 months and we eventually told eachother we loved eachother and we both meant it. he dumped me and i have never gotten over it. Recently my friend told me that he is thinking about getting back together. Should we try again or just stay friends? (link)
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Try again. Why not lifes long and usually things don't get to much worse. Look for signs of another break up though. Use the old break up against him at all times. xxOo i appreciate feedback
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Ok i read your answers and they were pretty good to other questions so I was wondering if you can help me with mine.
I have this guy friend and how we met was he came to where I live to visit for a week with another one of my friends. Well in this week that I first met him I totally fell for him hard and I mean hard. After he left I kept like obsessing over him and he has a girlfriend that he thinks he's in love with. When I finally stopped obsessing over him I started getting to know him. We are now best friends. This whole story would be awesome if it wern't for this part. I still like him.
I don't think I'm in love or anything but I've liked him alot for 3 years. He has never liked me (that I know of). He did know that i liked him and he now knows that I don't. I love his girlfriend to death and I'm friends with her. I don't want to mess anything up, but I like him
alot
what do i do???
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This kind of thing sucks! It really does but as you said you are friends with his girlfriend so that makes things really hard. You probably do have a certain love for him as a friend or not since you've liked him for 3 years. VERY LONG! If he thinks you don't like him thats good, because you don't want him to act differently, but you also want to know if he has any feelings for you. I wish I could ask you how he acted when he met you, such as flirty or more laid back. Obessesing isn't a bad thing just don't obess about him to your friends to much they'll get annoyed. Relationships never last long so their relationship will probably end, especially since he thinks he loves her! Ask him about his status but not regularly. Hang out with him [as friends] but theres the possibility you might hit it off as more than friends. I hope I helped please give me feedback I need to know how this is going. xxOo
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Hey,
I need some serious advice a.s.a.p.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7mths now and we've kissed,held hands, made-out, and hugged and stuff like that. Now hes been touching me everywhere (and i mean everywhere!) whenever we are really closly hugging or holding each other closely when we sit together, it scares me really bad for some reason and my heart starts pounding, also i am a catholic grl and i follow my religion, i am also only a freshman in HS. I talked to my best friend about it (a guy) and he said he would touch his girlfriend like that too, and my other friends let their boyfriends do that too, now im starting to wonder if im too prude, or im not doing the right thing.
So should i let him touch me?
Thanx to everyone thats gonna help me,
*BaByItSYoU*
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I had that too!! I thought of my boyfriend as too clingy when he did that. But now it's been 5 months and I loveeee* him. I have a boyfriend that's not him, and I've had alot of boyfriends after him. I thought I would be soo happy without him always being there & touching me but I wasn't. I started missing it and comparing my other boyfriends to him. 2 boys I had really liked I had to dump because they knew I had called them prude when I compared them to my ex- and would've broke up with me. It's normal all boys get a little turned on. I`m in middle school and it's perfectly normal. Some of my friends do feel uneasy like you, but they come to relize they kind of like it. I hope I helped I appreciate feedback on my advice =] xxOO
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Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do? (link)
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You need to stop worrying about them. It would help to know your age/grade but I'll manage. Girls at the age i'm guessing your at shouldn't have to be picky as long as there not doing anything to harm themselves whocares if their not in love or if their carefree. It's their life if their uncomfortable with it they'll change it themselves, you do what you think is right. I hope I helped u see you feel too bad for yourself you don't have a real problem get otta here.. xxOo
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There is this guy i have liked for awhile. Im pretty good friends with him. And everytime i see him i just want to run up and tell him how i feel. And i just want to be with him every second of the day because he is such a great guy! He is single too!!! I don't know what to do. Im way to shy to just come out and say it to him...but i just wish he would know. How do i go about doing this besides being straight forward about it? (link)
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I'm going through the same thing .. you do need to tell him someday get a friend that isn't too close to you or him and get them to ask him how he feels about some girls and casually mention you.. bestz wayy to find out shyt is to use your friends .. good luck
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Well 1st of all im askin advice on what to do heres my story, well I still like my ex g/f, we went out in may and broke it off in june, becuz she went to Ecuador 4 the summer,we both have had relationships since but I still liked her, & I didn't feel right cuz as I was going out with other girls I was thinkin about my ex, recently we've been hangin out a bit, and we r good friends and when we hang out she's always flirty cuz she's like a natural flirt, but like idk what to do and I like her alot... (link)
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That's what i'm going through.. but i'm a girl. I call this one ex- I have superman and I always talk about him and have ALOT of feelings for him but i don't want to tell him because he knew me for awhile and he knows me for not being corny like that. I have a boyfriend that I really like but when I see superman or talk to him it kills me because I know I really like him. I broke up with him though .. im such an idiot !! .. For you bestz thing to do is tell her I think she'll feel the same way or at least give you another chance .. advice for next time this happens make the girl promise you'll go out again someday it works ..
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There is this guy that i like alot! And i've hooked up wit him before but we never went out! and one of mmy best friends i was hangin out wit her and i introduced her to him and when ever i was on the phone wwit her he would ask who it was and once he grabed the phone from me and told her that she has the biggest ass he has ever seen! and a couple days ago she said that they talk on the phone every nite and he was hangin out wit her one nite when her parents were gone and she claims thatthey didnt do anything and he claimed that they did stuff that i do not need to know about! this is really pissing me off and she knows how i feel bout him and a couple days ago she told me she liked him and he liked her and that i shouldnt be jealous if they go out becaz they go together and she made me feel bad and i waz pissed and now there're goin out and i exploded when i found out caz i just really really like this guy and now shes goin out wit him and im really mad at her wat should i do???? (link)
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You should stop being mad at her. It's nice that you like him but he has another girl! See the perspective of things, they aren't going to be togather forever GET OVER IT !!
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