this is my proplem my crush asked out my best friend and i really like him this guy is my ex he has been my boyfriend 2 times he really likes my friend so what should i do assk him out or what?
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday March 20 2005, 3:57 pm: No i dont think you should ask him out if he is going out with your best friend mabe you should tell your best friend you still have feelings for him and that your a little jelious that there going out, she will reasure you that it will all turn out fine. You will find someone else to fall for soon anyway.
Brunettesweetheart2468 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 3:53 pm: Well, hun I'm sorry but if you had your chance, then well, you had a chance. Oviously if it didn't work out twice, it won't work out. It might, but I doubt it. Don't be amd at your friend, it's not her fault. There's plenty of fish in the sea. And one is just right for you. Focus on that.
_eMiLy answered Sunday March 20 2005, 3:37 pm: Hey hun,
If your bestfriend already said yes and they are dating then I wouldn't tell him how you feel, I know it sounds harsh and pretty hard not to let your feeling run wild by telling him but it really would be the best thing to do imagine he was your boyfriend and your bestfriend came along and told him that she likes him. You'd be a bit bummed, right?
If they aren't dating then you should go for it and tell him before they do start dating. You never know, he might change his mind and want to be with you but then again he might not. Whatever you decide to do, don't get your hopes up because if in the end you tell him and he still wants to be with your bestfriend you're going to be totally bummed.
I hope I helped&good luck
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HeLpFuLhUnNiE916 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 3:30 pm: I would tell him how you really feel about him, and then let him make up his mind. If he picks you over your friend though or vise versa, don;t let it wreck the friendship! I hope I helped! :-) [ HeLpFuLhUnNiE916's advice column | Ask HeLpFuLhUnNiE916 A Question ]
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