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Hey whats up im Jessica! if your having some problem and just need some advice just ask. ill be glad to help you -MUCH LOVE- &hearts
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Heyy! okay im 14, and well theres this guy that i met in umm a weird way actually lol but like i have known him for about 8 months and all those months we have been like saying we love eachother but the last couple of months is when its gotten like real, before that we just said it but now we both really mean it, but lately hes been totally different, hes not the guy i fell in love with and i still love him so much, and when i tell my friends whats going on they think that theres another girl, because he never talks to me barely and when he does its not for long and then when i get mad is when he like freaks out and is like im always gonna love you thats not gonna change and stuff, but then right after that it goes right back to the way it was before that, and i was gonna just talk to him about it again, but ive done it so many times i just dont think he cares anymore, should i just forget about him and try to move on or talk to him more about it... i need help!! reply as fast as you can lol thanks alot (link)
definaly try to talk to him about it if he really loves you he should listen


ok i im starting to like this guy, he's in three of my classes so i see him everyday, i am only now noticing how funny and sweet he is and just resently he has got a new girlfriend. in class we flirt with each other quite a lot, i dont know if he likes me or if hes just playing around but it sure seems like he likes me...i really like him but i dont want to get in between him and his g/f b/c she is a really sweet person. im sooo confused, should i go for it or back off b/c he is taken? or maybe its me, maybe im all of a sudden liking him b/c hes something i cant have...? any help would be great! thankx (link)
well i f i were ou i would go for it! just becasue he is taken doesnt mean he cant like you


Ok I really like this girl and we are really good friends. But she is going out with another guy and everytime I am going to ask her out she gets asked out buy a different guy. She doesn't no that i like her. What should I do? (link)
awww well you should tell her so when her and her bf break up she will know you want a chance with her


ok, well i over heard that there was this rape list at mah skool and that mah friends and i were on it. i am so scared and dont kno wat to do. so we told the principle and she barely did anything so now we are even more scared. then last week at a friends house, she hada party. there was spin the bootle and some guy spined it and it landed on mah friend. so they went into the closet. well a couple of minutes later we heard her scream. so we tried to open the door but he locked it. then he opened it and ran before we could get him. she told us that she was raped and that im next! wat should i do??? (link)
tell your parents if you know who this guy is dont hang around him stay away! and if he still tries to rape you call the cops and or fight back!


Why do you act like such a slut? i would still be friends with u if you didnt do all that crap and cheat on Anthony. How could u do that? i wouldnt even have the heart to even if i did think that guy was really hot ok that is just rong!!!! And i want to know are you willing to change for your friend back ? all of the friends you lost because of one desison well if want them bac call me! if you not gonna change then dont even try! (link)
yeah i am definatly willing to change to get my friends back. but i dont know who this is so i dont know who i am supposed to call. but tell me who to call and i will definaly change
-MUCH LOVE-


okay well my friend is making me pretty mad because she keeps calling me boy crazy because im like in love with this boy. and she tells me, "boys arent life" well i told her that i while ago.. and now she's like, "yeah i know u told me that but ur worse than i was" and it's making me mad because i think she's gonna say that in front of my boyfriend, and it's annoying and might get him mad. she's saying this because i talk about him all the time and i have him in my info and my xanga everywhere, does this make me boy crazy? (link)
no you just really like him and maybe you want to show him off some
-MUCH LOVE-


How do you know when you love someone? (link)
trust me you will know! i dont really know how to explain itt but it feels really god. you are really comfortale around that person you would never even think about cheating on them and you want to be with them forever. that is some ways you can tell i guess

hope i helped


ok me and my x just broke up...i broke up with him actrully cuz i like this other guy and i was so stupid and now i cant stop thinking about my x...and its driving me crazy..!! am i in luv and how do i get back together with him cuz i miss him and ive never felt this way before.... (link)
ok well if your really inlove with him you need to tell him that. dont be embarised! you obviously made a huge mistake and you need to fix it! talk to him alot! tell him how you feel, that your still inlove with him and you made a big mistake by breaking up with him
hope i helped some!


hey. okay i have some stretch marks on my boobs, and im very slef concious about them. none of m friends have them. my boobs arent even that big either! why did i get them, and what can i do to get them go away? i'm afraid to do anything sexual witha guy because im embarresed. i cant wear low shirts because of it. what can i do to maek this go away? (link)
try coco butter that helps with stretch marks


hey! okay, today i went tanning for the frist time. i went in a medium ed for 10 minutes, and used the special lotion they give you. i came home tonight, more than 6 hours later, and took a shower. just one certain spot on me is red, actually 2. it's normally where i get sunburn. could i have possibly gotten sunburn , or is it like an allergic reaction to the lotion? i don't think it's the lotion, since wouldn't i have gotten taht all over my body? just wondering if it is sunburn how can i prevent it next time and put anything on it to make it go away? thanks! (link)
yesterday i went tannig for the first time too. well its not the lotion but yes it is sunburn. there isnt really anything youcan do about it. i have red all over my body. it will go away in s few days


I really like this guy, he usually stares at me during the classes we have together but my friend asked him if he liked me and he said no because i have small eyes! what do i do to this kid so he likes me?!! please help!! wb asap! (link)
get to know him.... being touchy feely with some1 is a good way to get him to like you. it works with me just be like really huggy and like lock arms with him... you have to be comfortable with him thuogh


ok i fell inlove with this guy over the summer but then he moved to pennsylvania... well we had that long distant relationship thing going on for awhile, like 3-4 months. well we broke up but still loved eachother type thing, talked on the phone every night and all that good stuff. we were perfect for eachother. well i kinda liked this one other guy and we started going out, but dont forget i still loved the other kid. well things werent going to good with me and the new guy but still going out. four months later he breaks up with me for this other chick, and the kid that moved wont call me or when i call he doesnt answer (he has caller id). i still love him but i still kinda like that new guy... what do i do? (link)
hmmmmm...
keep trying to get ahold of him and just talk to him about it...


Ok so Im 13 and I have a really stric mom right. Well i went to a party and made out with my boyfriend ( which was a secret to my mom ) and somehow my mom found out and now totally doesn't trust me anymore. I personally dont think it was a big deal at all but she does! She thinks that Im a really bad kid and everything. Is there any way i can explain to her that its not that big of deal? (link)
oh yeah you will have to earn her trust back. i had to do the same this except she saw me make out with my bf. just talk to her. and be like it was really weird and i didnt like it. how can i earn ur trust back. try to be more open. you are growing up she sould be so overprotective. cause like you shouldnt do anything that you with regret


Okay my friends b-day is coming up and i want to give her a mix CD well I duno how to get the music. I know how to make the cd and everything. but is there any sites where i can get the music to put on the site?? thanks so much i rate high (link)
try winmx.com it is easy and free


Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do? (link)
try using coco butter that works on strech marks


alright.. well me and this guy started talkin one night for the first time, and ive always thought he was super hot so i thought i would go ahead and start talkin to him for the fun of it.. so when we got to talkin it ended up he thought it would be a good idea to do soemtihng together.. and we did.. and we kissed and did stuff together.. and then spent the next liek 3 days together (this was during spring break)and yes we were all over eachother .. so i thought i had a decent chance and he told me adn other ppl he liked me.. BUT there is another girl, and he is at the movies with her right now, and this is an ex.. and she still has feelings for him but i dont know if he feels the same.. and i really thought i had a chance with this guy.. and he made it seem that way to but now that that other girl is back in the picture i dont know what to do.. its competition with her.. and i dont know what to do to win him over..? :/ (link)
beat her down! teach her not to mess with your man


this is my proplem my crush asked out my best friend and i really like him this guy is my ex he has been my boyfriend 2 times he really likes my friend so what should i do assk him out or what?
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tell him that you like him and u dont want him to go out with your friend


Hey you guys!
MiSSc here, OK so here's an update from me...I have a boyfriend now and we've been going out for a month. He asked me out on Valentines Day too. I love my boyfriend so much!! He's everything that I wanted in a guy. Exactly everything that I've ever wanted in a guy! I thought I was in love many times before, but now I know that it wasn't true love. But this time I think I finally found the one for me, even my mom thinks so and our friends too. But I'm only 15, we will both be turning 16 soon. Do you think that its possible to find love so young? (link)
sure it is i know some people that had been goin out sence they were kids and got married


ok so last night i was supposed to go to the movies with my friends. well i found out i couldn't because i had to go to my grandma's 60th birthday. well my best friend said she didn't want to go to the movies. so i asked her if she wanted to come over and she said yea. so i get home and it turns out i have to stay home and watch my little brother. so i'm like yes now i have a better chance for margot to spend the night! so i ask my mom and she keep's sayin i don't know n that she'll call me. so at like 7 i call her for the last time and i ask, i'm not worried that margot won't be home because she didn't want to go to the movies. so my mom says yes and i call margot's house, but her mom says she's at the movies. so i'm kinda mad and i call her cell and say hey you can come over after the movies if you want to and she says ok i'll call you. well she calls at 10:30 and says that her mom said no because it's too late. and i'm like ok. and she says are you mad? and i say no, but inside i'm freakin pissed! what should i do? sorry it's so long. (link)
just talk to her about it tell her how it made you feel... that you were tring to make plans with her but she just blew you off


In the past couple weeks, ive gained 10-12 lbs and i cant stop freaking out. My exercise and eating habits havent changed and i dont know why but i keep putting on more and more weight. I feel so disgusted with myself. Can anyone explain to me why ive gained all this weight all of the sudden? (No, im not pregnant.) I dont overeat. I actually burn all my calories. Any way i can lose all this weight because exercise and eating healthy arent working? (link)
if your getting taller you will gain weight. try running every day for like 30 min or go to a gym and exercise




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