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Should i let him?
Hey,
I need some serious advice a.s.a.p.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7mths now and we've kissed,held hands, made-out, and hugged and stuff like that. Now hes been touching me everywhere (and i mean everywhere!) whenever we are really closly hugging or holding each other closely when we sit together, it scares me really bad for some reason and my heart starts pounding, also i am a catholic grl and i follow my religion, i am also only a freshman in HS. I talked to my best friend about it (a guy) and he said he would touch his girlfriend like that too, and my other friends let their boyfriends do that too, now im starting to wonder if im too prude, or im not doing the right thing.
So should i let him touch me?
Thanx to everyone thats gonna help me,
*BaByItSYoU*
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I had that too!! I thought of my boyfriend as too clingy when he did that. But now it's been 5 months and I loveeee* him. I have a boyfriend that's not him, and I've had alot of boyfriends after him. I thought I would be soo happy without him always being there & touching me but I wasn't. I started missing it and comparing my other boyfriends to him. 2 boys I had really liked I had to dump because they knew I had called them prude when I compared them to my ex- and would've broke up with me. It's normal all boys get a little turned on. I`m in middle school and it's perfectly normal. Some of my friends do feel uneasy like you, but they come to relize they kind of like it. I hope I helped I appreciate feedback on my advice =] xxOO
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Well no. You dont do something that you want to do. I am sort of just like that. I mean I might react a bit diff. but you do what you want and what is comfortable for you. Have you talked to him about it? I have a couple friends that are like your friends and I have friends who have never frenched. So I have many friends of various types. But just talk to him about it and No what you are doing isnt wrong. I am catholic to and you are just going by what you believe is right and nowhere is that written is that its wrong because its completely right and i give you two thumbs up for sticking to what you want and believe!! ((Please gimmie feedback)) **trix
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Just because your friends do it doesn't mean that should too. If your not comfortable letting him touch you in certain places then let your boyfriend know. Your not being prude just protective over your body. But now that your in High School alot of relationships you get involved in might come to the same situation your in now! Its really actually normall believe it or not its just up to you at what time your ready to move to that level.... don't rush yourself because i wish i was into my religion like you! just don't do anything you might end up reggretting later on in the future!!!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Just because your friends are comfortable with it doesn't mean you automatically are. If you don't like it when he touches you, let him know. Just be honest. If he can't understand your request, yuo should dump him because that's unacceptable. He should respect your boundaries. Hopefully he will listen and stop, then you won't have a problem. =)
~~laura
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dont follow what your friends do. You need to set your own boundaries based on when YOU are comfortable with. Hope i helped
-beccers_boo
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okay you should only let him touch you like that if you want him to if it makes you uncomfortable with it then move his hands or say something, i dont know if i would care or not it depends on if i would really know the person and really like him hoped it helped
~keely
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