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ok this is long but i need help veryones calling me slut b\c


Question Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 10:26 pm

ok well im in junior high and i hang out with these 3 popular girls...and one of them is calling me ugly and a slut and a bitch and a ass hole and crap like that...i think shes jealous of me but she says shes not!! ive tried to be the lil angel just so i could stay friends with her b\c their like the group i hang out with...and were rele popular...she says i am full of myself and im not!! omg she calls me a slut just b\c ive gone out with alot of guys!? soo what? i mean she says everybody thinks im mean and nobody likes me and crap like that and like everytime she gets mad at me she starts all these rumors about me..ughh i dont know what to do.. i rele need some help i feel like shes gonna get the whole scholl saying something bad about me.. i mean i wanna stay cool but she calls me a slut and tells everybody i get on her sn!! omggg and its all not true but nobody ever beleievs me they beleieve her..ughh im soo depressed.. Everytime she gets mad at me..all my other friends do for some reason? ugh im so hurt and shes constantly saying shit about me!!!! But she calls me a slut and a hoe and says im so full of myself when she juss got done telling me she thinks shes sooo hot and popular..ugh thats sounds like shes a lil full of herself..w\e i just hope everything works out for me and my friends...=( i need alot of help!!! plzz....thanks...*sad ashlee*=(

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:51 pm:
Well listen *sad ahslee* You are in jr. high and jr. high is biatch if i dont say so myself. I actually was kinda.. my friend told me about her sit. I was the only that really didnt get mad her. I just stuck by her. I personally think if you have 1 good friend your set and you are able to get through this i would just call her and talk to her about it or something or maybe if your not to scarred you could go the counsolar about it and talk to her. I mean you dont have to give out her name or anything because that is your own business. But I would talk to her about it and see whats up because noone deserves to be called that. Maybe she does think you go out with 1 to many guys. She may be a bit jealous of that. But trust me ( I know you have probably heard this before but.. ) the older you get the less this sort of stuff will happan. Because you will start to relize that you dont need them. I just relized its better to be friends with everyone then to be in a "group" so that everyones likes you and you always have people sticking by you threw every kind of situation!! Trust me on that one I know it may seem like It will be hard to do but everything will turn out fine. ((Please gimmie feedback)) **trix

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KiSsEs answered Thursday December 16 2004, 11:38 pm:
This girl isn't REALLY a TRUE friend, if she was then wouldn't treat you like that and put you through sh*t you shouldn't have to go through! I think you should tell her how you feel and if she keeps acting like that then whoop her a$s! Friends are there for each other and obviously shses not a freind. Don't base your friendship on popularity because its not everything. Rumors come and go.....trusst me i KNOW!!! eventually people will see the real you and realize she just another "Regina" of Mean Girls!

Love Stephanie

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