Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 11:07 am
Ok i read your answers and they were pretty good to other questions so I was wondering if you can help me with mine.
I have this guy friend and how we met was he came to where I live to visit for a week with another one of my friends. Well in this week that I first met him I totally fell for him hard and I mean hard. After he left I kept like obsessing over him and he has a girlfriend that he thinks he's in love with. When I finally stopped obsessing over him I started getting to know him. We are now best friends. This whole story would be awesome if it wern't for this part. I still like him.
I don't think I'm in love or anything but I've liked him alot for 3 years. He has never liked me (that I know of). He did know that i liked him and he now knows that I don't. I love his girlfriend to death and I'm friends with her. I don't want to mess anything up, but I like him
alot
what do i do???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hard2get answered Thursday December 23 2004, 4:58 pm: This kind of thing sucks! It really does but as you said you are friends with his girlfriend so that makes things really hard. You probably do have a certain love for him as a friend or not since you've liked him for 3 years. VERY LONG! If he thinks you don't like him thats good, because you don't want him to act differently, but you also want to know if he has any feelings for you. I wish I could ask you how he acted when he met you, such as flirty or more laid back. Obessesing isn't a bad thing just don't obess about him to your friends to much they'll get annoyed. Relationships never last long so their relationship will probably end, especially since he thinks he loves her! Ask him about his status but not regularly. Hang out with him [as friends] but theres the possibility you might hit it off as more than friends. I hope I helped please give me feedback I need to know how this is going. xxOo [ hard2get's advice column | Ask hard2get A Question ]
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