There is this guy that i like alot! And i've hooked up wit him before but we never went out! and one of mmy best friends i was hangin out wit her and i introduced her to him and when ever i was on the phone wwit her he would ask who it was and once he grabed the phone from me and told her that she has the biggest ass he has ever seen! and a couple days ago she said that they talk on the phone every nite and he was hangin out wit her one nite when her parents were gone and she claims thatthey didnt do anything and he claimed that they did stuff that i do not need to know about! this is really pissing me off and she knows how i feel bout him and a couple days ago she told me she liked him and he liked her and that i shouldnt be jealous if they go out becaz they go together and she made me feel bad and i waz pissed and now there're goin out and i exploded when i found out caz i just really really like this guy and now shes goin out wit him and im really mad at her wat should i do????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JeNbABe33894 answered Saturday November 27 2004, 11:21 am: ummm ur friends a major biotch for one thing, she shouldve asked u if it was ok w/ u and then if not respected u enuf not to do tht. so obviously shes not ur friend cuz if she was she wouldnt have doen soemthign like tht to u! and as for "this guy" he seems like a jerk thts on like crack or something cuz if he were really a nice guy then he wouldnt have done somethign liek tht to u either when he knew u liked him and if he didnt liek u then he shouldnt have led u on and stuff... so basically by gettign rid of those to its a change for the better
LilMia811 answered Friday November 26 2004, 8:18 pm: Your friend is not your friend. She knew you liked that guy and she went for him anyway. Thats just wrong. And that guy, hes just as bad. I'm sure he knew you liked him if you guys were hooking up and stuff. Plus by hooking up with you, he made you believe he liked you back. Going and seeing your friend is just disrespectful. He probably just wants his cake and eat it too. If he had it his way, he'd probably mess around with the both of you. This guy is no good. You can do way better. Be happy your friend is stuck with a jerk like him, her sleezy ass deserves him, you don't. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
Cath answered Friday November 26 2004, 7:54 pm: Hi Sweetie,
I personally think they both suck!! I'm sorry, I'm really not trying to be rude. It's eassy for me to say this because I'm the person with no emotional feelings attatched to neither your friend nor he boy you like. Another thing... if you feel pure RAGE, JEOLOUSY, AND ENVY it's O-K-A-Y. Even if it's murderous (l.o.l.) Feelings are never wrong or right. They're something very real that whe can't help and we're faultless from. She shouldn't try to make you feel guilty. I honestly don't care how great this girl is, even if she saved your life, she's obviouisly a bad friend and a worst person. Now about the boy... when we have a crush and things don't go the way we want them to with our crush... it hurts. No matter how well or close you were or even if it was just some boy who sat behind you. Why? Because the possibility dies. I know you're better than him and I think you know too. Like I said, people can't help their feelings. If you're one of the strong people who can remember there are many nice boys out there in a time of grieving over a crush then good! If you're not then be sad and mad and pissed. Bitch about him on the internet or something. Get it out of your system.
I'm sorry my answer is long... anyway, my best wishes! P.S. Happy Pupil Free Day! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
CherryBaby611 answered Friday November 26 2004, 7:23 pm: Thats wrong no matter what friends come before guys.Okay so why dont you invite your friend over or go somewhere with her and try to tell her how much this hurts you that she would ever do that to you. Try to expalin it so she can see it from your point of view. If she still doesnt care then rethink your friendship with her. The only people you need in your life are the ones that prove to you they need you in yours. Try to keep that in mind when you talk to her about it.Good Luck! [ CherryBaby611's advice column | Ask CherryBaby611 A Question ]
DearAshley answered Friday November 26 2004, 7:09 pm: i think you should let both of them go. if your friend was your true friend then she wouldnt hurt you like that. and for her to do this to you over a boy, really means your friend and the guy aren't worth your time. if you still want to be friends with her then just tell her you dont apreciate the way she just ripped him away from you though you two weren't going out. and if she could have easily said no in order not to hurt you as her friend. [ DearAshley's advice column | Ask DearAshley A Question ]
kimispry45 answered Friday November 26 2004, 5:58 pm: Get Over Him.Tell Her That You Like Him Still. and care about him but tell her that you want them to go out it just hurts you when you see them together [ kimispry45's advice column | Ask kimispry45 A Question ]
hard2get answered Friday November 26 2004, 5:44 pm: You should stop being mad at her. It's nice that you like him but he has another girl! See the perspective of things, they aren't going to be togather forever GET OVER IT !! [ hard2get's advice column | Ask hard2get A Question ]
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