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Relationship.. break up?
My best friend goes out with this boy, She loves so much that no matter what he does she wont leave him. He could cheat on her, beat her, ANYTHiNG !! She wont leave him, But now shes confused, hes acting to diffrent he acts like shes the greatest thing in the world WHEN THERE ALONE ! But when hes with his friends, its diffent. Like if you see them in the hall alone he has this look that "wow i love her so much shes the greatest thing in the world,i dont know what i would do with out her" but when hes with friends its like "oh yeah , i "love her" no she just thinks that shes just another girlfriend" but everyone knows he really does love her. And now shes confused she loves him and she doesnt want to leave him, but she crys all the time other it, does she just stay with him and cry? Or cry because she lost him and its all her fault. i NEED TO HELP HER BEFORE SHE DOES SOMETHiNG STUPiD !!! HELP ME TO HELP HER !! GiVE ME ADViCE !!
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it looks like she just likes him because she needs some one there. she is used to someone being there. make sure that he tells all of his friends everything and if he doesnt... she should just find someone that really loves her and IS NICE TO HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well if I knew how old your friend and her boy friend were it would be easier to answer this question...
I dont think your friend is really in love with this guy. I think she is just so used to him that she thinks she is in love with him and needs to be with him no matter what. If her boyfriend cheats on her, she does not need to be with him. If her boyfriend beats her she definitely does not need to be with him. No woman needs a man like that. If he cant be real about how he feels about her in front of his friends, then chances are he doesnt really love her. When a guy really loves a girl he will want to express it in front of the world. Your friend needs to stop crying. This guy may be a good guy, but he doesnt seem like the right one for her and she needs to stop believeing he is because she can do way better. She doesnt deserve to be crying. She isnt doing anything wrong. He is.
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Hi Sweetie,
The only advice I could give you is (drumroll... crickets chirpping...) : Give her advice. I know you've done thise so many times... since it IS her life it's the best you can do. Don't tell her this guy LOVES her or DOESN'T love her. Use the term "cares about". But let her know that he's obviously have some kind of issues expressing his ... feelings of care to her in front of his friends. Tell her that it's her decisions but you personally feel-this is because you care about her-that she could do better. If she wants to stay with him tell him she should talk about it with him. Remind her that she deserves respect and there are guys out there who can actually respect her. The most important thing to tell her is that no matter what she decdes or how the situation ends you'll be there for her, because you care about her.
My best wishes. P.S. Happy Pupil Free Day!!! ~Blessed Be...
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ok just tlk to her.
cause we dont want her to do anything drastic.
help her i know how guys r when they r around their friends they ignore us gurls and do guy things.my ex loved me and i know he did cause he had i love xxxxxxxx on his hand, but when he was around his friends i was just an annoying gurlfriend.
tht is y he broke up with me cause he said i was annoying wich no guy understands.
but anyways just be her friend and if she really likes him then you let her be happy.
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i think you need to talk to the boyfriend and tell him how much she loves him. and when you tell him make sure he knows. then tell him that you have been watching him around his friends and the way he talks about her. the way he sounds as if he doesn't care.let him know, that now your friend thinks she's just another one of his grls. and if he really loves her then he wouldn't hav to put on the cool act around his friends. then i think you should tell your friend you talked to him for her. and tell your friend if she feels neglected, dont keep hurting herself emotionally over him.
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you will never belive this but almost the EXACT same situation happened with me but, i did the wrong thing and now me and this girl don't speak anymore. what you have to do is talk to his friends first tell them to tell him how great she is, then talk to her about him like what you don't like about him and what he could do to her to hurt her, spend more time with just her so she can take breaks from him here and there. thats all i've got to say for now hope it works out for you so you don't end up like the girl i knew (and she's a slut now)
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Talk To Him About Her Say That She Loves You Ahole Lot Please Don't Do anything 2 Hurt Her Or Make Her Do Nething Stupid. I Hope I Helped
~*~*~Kimi~*~*~
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