my friend has a crush on the same guy i like but she doesnt know i like him and i dont want to tell her cuz im afraid if he finds out then we wont be like best friends anymore i really really like him and now i think that shes gonna ask him out im dont know wut to do i really like this guy!!!!!!
MummuM answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:47 pm: Hun, you have to tell her you like him. What's going to happen if she does ask him out? Then you'll be crushed. Best thing to do is sit her down and explain everything. Tell her you've had feelings for him longer then she had. And if she did ask him out it would break your heart. I'm sure she'll understand. If she's really cares about your feelings and you, she won't ask this guy out.
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Karen answered Saturday February 5 2005, 11:35 am: You definitely need to tell your friend that you have liked this guy longer than she has. Tell her that you don't want her to ask this guy out because you will get hurt inside if she does. If she is your friend, I'm pretty sure she will understand and won't ask this guy out. If she doesn't understand, then she's definitely not a good friend. Friends come before guys and if she doesn't get that, then find a better friend. She may like someone else but just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Hope I helped :)
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XxSecretLovexX answered Saturday February 5 2005, 2:21 am: Wow sounds like Compitition lol ... but if i was you i would just try to get closer to him friendly wise because tht way you no him more as a person then as a guy at school XoX Hope i helped Liliy [ XxSecretLovexX's advice column | Ask XxSecretLovexX A Question ]
hiddenmeaning answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:33 am: tell her! if she gets mad at you then she was never your friend to begin with. Just talk it out, maybe she likes someone else. You never know until you ask. [ hiddenmeaning's advice column | Ask hiddenmeaning A Question ]
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