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okay so my boyfriend really want a picture of me that he can put in his room or carry in his wallet. well i have some pics around the house but i want ta get him a good one one from like a studio. would that b a good present for valetines? and then how much does that usually cost? if i cant afford it wut else could i do?

Tht would be really nice of you to go get a professional picture tooking of you for him but if it's spendy do it the cheap way ... get a throw away camera go to a forresty or pretty scenry place take some kute pics get some close ups and ur good to go lol Xox Hope i helped Liliy

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Let me fill you in before I ask my question..Ok my ex and I have one of the most perfect relationships in the world. He finally admitted he loved and everything was going good and we were getting really close. Well then this other girl asks him out and he says yes he sed he wants to have a lil fun before we get into a relationship because he will be tied down..Also that he is scared because he got out of a serious relationship not that long ago and he is scared that ours will turn out like theirs did but anyways..What should I do?!?!?! I dont know I want to ask him to break up with her but I dont know if I could actually do that Im hoping they will break up by themselves but I still dont know what to do..

~*Perfectly Imperfect*~

Tied Down ?! okay hun if your soon to be boyfriend feels like he's gonna be tied down then tht's not good he should be thinking of it as in LOVE not traped ... can't he have fun with you ?! instead of hooking up with some other girl ... think about it , if he isn't ready to get serious then it's not ment to be hope i helped XoX liliy P.s. Stand up for ur self and dont let him play with ur feelings i dont want you to get hurt

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i have this guy at school that i REALLY like. but hes wit all the popular ppl and he;ll never like me...but then theres this other guys who left the state last month and he moved...he emailed me a while back but i just got it. my comp was messed up. well in the message he said he loved me and when he was here i loved him and told him but he never said anything to me. now that hes finally telling me makes me feel like he was embarrised or somthing about me down here...but now that hes gone he isnt. but then there is always the guy at my school....and what if the guy who moved asks me out? what should i do? i think im okay with long term relationships but he doesnt have aim...only email and maybe fone. :(

Tht Sux ... well The guy at school, Try to start little conversations with him like if he is in any of ur classes make excuses to talk to him like acting like you dont get somthing and have him explain it to you .. then maybe he will get past the whole popularity thingy .. the other .. as far as i know just keep ur options open and dont get serious with him because you dont no what he's doing where ever he is .. i dont think it would be a good relationship sorry .. XoX hope i helped Liliy

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i broke up with my boyfriend but now i really want to go back out with him. i think he still likes me because he flirts all the time. we've only been broke up for a week and i don't want to sound deperate or foolish. what if he's mad i broke up with him? i tried to talk to him about it but i couldn't because i was so nervous. i couldn't force the words out. what should i do? i really want to try to do it in person but how can i get over my fears and what should i say? i have no clue how to word anything!

Well First A cute way to tell him is Call him and tell him to meet you some where...then when he gets there just act like you guys are just gonna hang out and then start talking about the past and how much fun you guys had and remind him of little memories... then you'll be able to see how he really feels about you and just let him no you made mistake but ur very sorry XoX I hope i Helped Liliy

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wat do you do when your best friend is just not herself? like she just doesn't no anything anymore and shes not hyper shes just confused? i try to talk to her but shes like i don't care it makes me feel like shes mad at me but she said she wasn't i don't want to talk to her shes scarying me but something is wrong. please help.

Hopefully it's not a situation where she is stressed because being stressed at a young age can really effect your self and everyone around you ... try to talk to her alone and see what she tells you and if she doesn't feel like opening up to you maybe just give her some air and let her think about what's going on I hope i Helped Liliy

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how do you tell a guy you arent interested without breaking his heart?

Okay It depends on the situation ur in like if you are a really good friend of the guy and he wants to try to get closer just let him no your better off friends but if tht's not the case and he's just a random guy let him no tht you dont want a boyfriend right now dont be harsh and be like hell no just say somthing sweet to not make him feel bad about him self i would let him off with .. i have feelings right now for someone else but i think we should hang out some and see where it goes from there

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My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice?

Tht's a Total Bummer...If she's gonna pick a guy she just met over a life long partner who is dedicated and in deep love then she doesn't deserve you ... i know it's hard to just get over somone like tht but sooner or later it's gonna happen because watching her with him will just slowy hurt you even worse i wish the best for you and i hope i helped XoX liliy

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i've been living with my best friend for about a month (on and off), my parents are getting a divorce and they've been fighting a lot so we desided that i should stay with my best friend. (we've been friends for 4 years), lately me and her have been fighting a lot, but over nothing. i dont' what to do cause i don't wanna go home but i dont' know if i should stay at her house... i'm a 15 year old female... please help...
- friend in need.

I think the reason why best friends fight is because there best freinds .. like your around them to much tht even the lamist things bug you ... maybe you should just use his/her place to crash but all day be out and about ... lol i know tht's shallow but hey it's better then going home to family problems which i kno is hard and i hope you get through it okay XoX Liliy

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ok me and my friend ways flirt he hugs me and i hug him . i really like him and all there is somedays where i get annoiyed by him then today after luch i was leaning agaisnt the table and he was right on me facing my butt do u think that in the future maybe we will be together

I have a Guy friend just like tht where we flirt on and off and some days i just totally dislike him. But i think if your relationship is like tht then it's just better to be friends... XoX Hope i Helped Liliy

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my friend has a crush on the same guy i like but she doesnt know i like him and i dont want to tell her cuz im afraid if he finds out then we wont be like best friends anymore i really really like him and now i think that shes gonna ask him out im dont know wut to do i really like this guy!!!!!!

MaDlY iN LoVe!!!

Wow sounds like Compitition lol ... but if i was you i would just try to get closer to him friendly wise because tht way you no him more as a person then as a guy at school XoX Hope i helped Liliy

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well i went to my school dance with my friends they guy i like (kinda my best friend) couldn't go i was kinda sad he came up to me and said sorry but i can't go tonight and he huged me but i still went then when a slow song came on i danced with someone else i use to like and to danced to every slow song then he started holdin my hand next think i know i'm so outside making out with him omg ! what should i do ??? hes older than me and i like my other friend to alot errr so now when i go back to school things are gonna be werid

I know Where your coming from! No one is perfect we all make mistakes...but life moves on. But i know you already know that so the best thing i can give you is just let it brush over... it's the past and you can't go back so why spend time replaying it over and over...It's normal for girls to have mixed feelings. Your young have fun and live you Life !! Hope i helped XoX Liliy

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I really like this guy but the problem is he wont talk to me , he ignores me most of the time and i even try to flirt with him but he still never notices me i dont no what to do

Well if your flirting with him and he still is backing off i wouldn't conitue but i know it's hard when you really like someone and they just act as if you dont exist ... give him some time and kinda play as if your over him because from personal experince once i stopped showing tht i liked a guy he started to like me and tht's happened in many cases so i hope it worx out for you Thanx .. Liliy

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