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me and my bf got in a big fight on wednesday....and i hung up on him and everything he hasnt called me or got online since then and im not gonna call him bc it was his fault that we had the fight...how long should i give him to call me? i dont wanna wait to long and lose him...but i wanna work it out but let him no im mad....when do u think i should call him n b lyke ok we really need to talk...and blah blah...he usually ALWAYS calls me...but idk he hasnt yet....so how long do i give him?
well id wait a little while until he calms down a bit and for you as well. Then if he hasnt called you in a couple of days then just call him, i hope everything works out between yall
I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away..
Well I would sit down with ur family and talk to them...ask them if they really do love you. If they say they do, then tell them how you feel unloved when they dont care for you after that accident and dont pay attention to you.
My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
Stick with your answer and dont feel bad about it. Tell him that u would be uncomfortable in doing that and that you just flat out dont wanna do it...if he loves you like he says then he should understand and be fine with that.
my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP
Aight first of all dont assume that ur friends cousin is actually telling the truth. Secondly you need to confront your bf about it and tell him what you heard.
im so shy and quiet sometimes, how do i get myself to be more outgoing around other people, i can get really like that sometimes, but only around my really good friends and stuff. i cant just be hyper around people i dont know, but i want to.
same here! i just try to be more outgoing and get invovled in their convos. now dont be overly hyper or theyll think ur weird...lol.
I've been talking to this guy for the past month. We've gone to the movies and to some basketball games. I am really starting to like him and i think he likes me back. Well even though we have gone out together we havent really talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked him what he thought we were friends or more, and he said he wants to be more, but that really is as far as we took it. I brought it up again a couple of days later and he asked me what he thinks we should be and i said i wasnt sure. Well i've been thinking and i really want him to be my boyfriend. We dont go to the same school right now but we will be in 4 weeks. What should i do, ask him to be my boyfriend now or wait untill we start school together? If i do ask him to be my boyfriend now how should i do it??? Please help!!!!
Yes you should just go for it!! Start by telling him your feelings...i wouldnt ask him out but thats just me. Id tell him how much i liked him and then hed be forced to say his feelings and see what goes from there.
i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef.
Just trust your friends when they are telling you that you are pretty...friends dont lie. Knowing that your friends think that highly of you should boost your confidence. Also know that you are beautiful no matter what! Walk with your head high and you will turn heads.
Ok, I LOVE my family to death. My mom's best friend is like family to us, and she has a son and daughter. Her son is a month younger than my little sister (my sis and I r 4 years apart) and her daughter is a little younger. We're always together and I get so bored because I have nobody my age. please help me!
Well change it up a little and ask your mom if you can invite a friend over..or ask to get out of the house. Let her know that you love them, but you need a little change every now and then and want to be with someone around your own age.
Im a 14 year old girl and feel a little selfconcious about my looks. What are some safe ways for me to loose weight?
Eat very healthy and exercise for like 10-20 minutes a day. Also I have heard that reading burns calories...just a thought.
Has anyone tried the Curious perfume by Britney...if so, did you like it??
yes...it smells really good actually
im 16 in high school this year we had a new history teacher.im dislexic and he always picks on me about it and sends me out of every lesson since september.for reasons that are pathetic like asking questions too loudly.on friday he sent me out of the lesson within 3 minutes.i dont know what to do,i like the subject its interesting but im thinking of dropping it because of the teacher.what shall i do?shall i drop it?pleese reply asap
You need to let someone know about that cuz thats really messed up. Tell the counselor about it..im sure they could help you out. If that class is taught with another teacher then try to get in that class.
ok im a pretty organized guy but i've been havin a really hard time tryin to keep up with my classes and work this year and itz drivin me crazy cuz i can't get the grades i used to be able to and i hate it. ne one help?? plz????
Well since its a work issue either you need to quit ur job or find time to get your homework done. If not then if you ever have a chance to do some at school you could do it there.
1. I want to go to a tanning bed, BUT, i heard it causes skin cancer, Does it really? Alos, I want to get a tan and I know its fall/winter almost. Would it look stupid? And how much do they usually cost? And do you have to be skinny to go to one?
Its not very likely to cause skin cancer...but it can. And no it doesnt matter if you are skinny or not. You wont look stupid unless you get too tan to the point where it looks really fake.
Hi ! well tomorrow at school is like a big day sorta because my schools football team is undefeated and so is the other team they are undefeated to and tomorrow during 5th period is a pep rally and then the state football game and like tomorrow i want to wear like crazy clothes and stuff to show my school spirit! any ideas? our colors are black and grey! please help!
Oh I love to dress up all school spirited! Buy like a grey shirt and just write stuff on it to show ur spirit and that you love ur school. To jazz it up buy black ribbon for your hair and get some black lace and tie it around ur neck like a choker..it will look really cute. And if you wanna go all out...then take a pair of old jeans and write your year of graduation on ur back pockets! Then you could spray urself down with glitter to sparkle and be noticed.
Ok hi my name is ashlee and im 13 years old. Anyways I really would like to wear makeup and stuff like that but i have a little acne. Its going away now because I just started using my acne medication right. Bad on my part I know. Wouldnt it look bad if there was like little bumps in the makeup though? What is the best foundation or powder that wont cause you to break out? Also, I've noticed alot of people having Coach bags and Gucci bags and dont they cost alot of money? Is there like some place where they dont cost alot that I dont know about? Thanks. Also I would like an honest opinion. I will rate high if I feel that you have tried.
Try using a foundation that is oil-free. For covering up ur acne...get tinted acne treatment cream and put it on ur acne to cover it up and it will help heal it. As for the designer bags...yes they cost a lot of money but if you want one I would go to ebay if you couldnt afford one. Make sure its real before you buy it though.
I know when you like someone you are supposed to go for it, but I am to shy to even express my feelings to my friends sometimes. I just wanna know to over come it. I hate being shy. I really wanna ask this person out before its too late. Please help me not to be as shy.
I know exactly how you feel! Im so shy around guys its not even funny. All I did was just go for it...I was so scared but I told this guy that I liked him and turns out he felt the same way! See what you should do is start out and get friends with him...and if you are then thats awesome. Then just see if he drops hints that he likes you...if he does..then tell him how you feel!