Question Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 8:36 pm
my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP
ciara answered Saturday November 27 2004, 10:48 pm: okay well i think you should confront him about it and maybe he is just talking sweetly to you is so he thinks that you wont find out. you need to go talk to him about it and if he doesnt give you a straight answer then dump him cuz he oviously isnt worth it so you need to get someone who will treat you better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ ciara's advice column | Ask ciara A Question ]
Cath answered Saturday November 27 2004, 10:32 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Your relationship sounds a bit dangerous. Nobody should depend on someone else that much. Either way, waht you should do is find out more. Maybe there was a misunderstanding... maybe the cousin made it up or something... it sounds psychotic and all but it would defenetly help if a picture was taken. Give the situation a few time while you investigae. Be more aware of his habbits... check up and see when he's "not home" and stuff. Take note of the little things. Talk to his friends or get your friends to talk to people that have known him... maybe he ahs a reputation.
Sweetie, if it IS true that he's cheating please remember you're better than that. He doesn't deserve you or anything stupid or that you might regret be done because of him. Just give yourself time to let the hurt out and heal. ...But lets not go that far, it was probably all a misunderstanding.
Good night. My best wishes! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
icey0990 answered Saturday November 27 2004, 10:13 pm: This is horrible...definately get all the crying out..and when your ready..call him! Dont hang up until you get the answer..dont just start yelling at him because who knows..rumors can definately be nasty. Confront him..and if he confesses..THEN you can let out your anger. Hopefully its just one big misunderstanding...but if it isnt..DONT STAY WITH A GUY WHO CHEATS ON U! Please dont..i kno too many ppl who crawl back to creeps who`ve cheated on them
CandYkaHne answered Saturday November 27 2004, 10:11 pm: Aight first of all dont assume that ur friends cousin is actually telling the truth. Secondly you need to confront your bf about it and tell him what you heard. [ CandYkaHne's advice column | Ask CandYkaHne A Question ]
SmoothiesFknRock answered Saturday November 27 2004, 9:51 pm: Well, this is a sticky situation. You can either believe your boyfriend, or the rumors. Definately talk to your boyfriend about it tho because you need to know the truth. You and your boyfriend need to be able to trust eachother, and if there's no trust- you don't have anything at all. Maybe your friends are lying to you? Don't jump to conclusions that he's cheating- because anyone could be lying to you. I hope you get to the bottom of this situation and good luck! Please rate me! =)
-Jennifer [ SmoothiesFknRock's advice column | Ask SmoothiesFknRock A Question ]
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