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i hate being here
I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away..
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Aww im so sorry..Try and tell a trusted adult about what your feeling.Maybe you can move in with an aunt or grandma.Sorry i didnt help much
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well thats kinda rude.. have you tried asking her why she does that? no mom should b like that.. thats kinda dumb if u ask me
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Well I would sit down with ur family and talk to them...ask them if they really do love you. If they say they do, then tell them how you feel unloved when they dont care for you after that accident and dont pay attention to you.
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ur right, run away with a gay pink bunny
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Thats not right, ure family shoukd care for you, especillay since you just got into the accident. Maybe you should sit down and talk t0o them ans tell them how u feel bout things like that, and that its bugging you and stuff, and if you cant talk to them about things, id find sombody else to talk to and stuff becuase u need sombody to be there for you when ure hurt and Sometimes just be there when ure down... if your parents dont come around after u talk to them, then maybe try talking to some of your cousins or aunts or sombody else who is family who cares for you..
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That isnt right. You should talk to them. Tell them how you feel they dont care about you, how your mom didnt come to see you when you got in an accident where somone died, and it could have been you. You should tell her what she does, that she walks away from you and wont even talk to you. They should be greatful that you are still alive and it wasnt you who died.
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The next itme you get yoru whole family together... talk to them abotu it. Tell themn you feel ignored and unloved.
-iLoVeMuRrAy90
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That's awful. I can't imagine what the feeling must be like. Your parents should realize how greatful they should be that you're still able to SIT on your sofa, and you're still alive...Now, of course talking to them would be the best solution, but sometimes that just doesn't cut it, and nothing will change. If they're being so inconsiderate, then you yourself might want to take the initiative to leave, and then let them realize what life without you would be like. There's no excuse for the way they're treating you. If you feel you need to leave, or want to leave, you should do so by all means for a little while. Let them know why you're leaving and hope that'll change something fast. I'm glad you made it out alright, you seem lucky to be alive. Hopefully they'll realize the mistake they've made, or how ungreatful they were if you walk out on them. Hope things get better for you!!
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well it seems that this is all of a suddin its not something thats been going on for a while <them treating you like this> maybe evryones just stressed out but the most important thing to do is you HAVE to talk to them baout it tell them how you feel if you still feel they dont care talk to me again but more then likely it will work out best of luch sweet <3
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Sounds like we have a little witch on our hands, ask her how the hell it's our fault you got in an accident...tell her to give you some credit, and ask her wtf she would have done if you would've died..make her think...talking is the key to almost everything. <3ash.
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i was in the same situation in june..well it probably is because they were scared because parents get freaked out by that stuff...give it some time they might come around more often...if not then maybe you could move in with close family members or have a counseling session with you and your mom and your stepdad
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maybe its just because you got into an accident and they are keeping a distance from you because they were scared to death...and since you lived they were relieved and scared and they just didnt know how to show it so maybe thats why they are acting like that im not sure but i think time will help in this situation....im sorry if i wasnt any more help..but maybe that is it. I hope i helped even in the slightest.
Dominic
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move to a family members house near by. or consider counciling..good luck.
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tht is so sad... my parents wouldnt do tht at all and im sorry bout the accident too im glad u made it!
but anyways,mabe u just need to tlk to them mabe spend some time with them although tht seems really dorky but its true...
then mabe they will pay more attention to u and care more bout it.
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If they don't care so much maybe they could agree to let you stay with family or friends, I know how walking around on egg shells is a pain in the ass and it's no way to live...see if you can hook yourself up with another place to live, don't make yourself suffer. Just my advice.
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