I've been talking to this guy for the past month. We've gone to the movies and to some basketball games. I am really starting to like him and i think he likes me back. Well even though we have gone out together we havent really talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked him what he thought we were friends or more, and he said he wants to be more, but that really is as far as we took it. I brought it up again a couple of days later and he asked me what he thinks we should be and i said i wasnt sure. Well i've been thinking and i really want him to be my boyfriend. We dont go to the same school right now but we will be in 4 weeks. What should i do, ask him to be my boyfriend now or wait untill we start school together? If i do ask him to be my boyfriend now how should i do it??? Please help!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ciara answered Saturday November 27 2004, 6:14 pm: okay you should just tell him that you really like him and that you guys should hook up and go out and then when you start school then you will be together and you guys can walk don the hall holding hands and be together during lunch and you guys can be comfortable being around eachother because you know how couples get like the first few days of their relationship they are all quiet around eachother. so hook up and go out you guys sound so cute together already!!! [ ciara's advice column | Ask ciara A Question ]
MaMiLiCiOuS_23 answered Friday November 26 2004, 10:04 pm: i think u should ask him when u can has he ever thought bout you guyz actually goin out together.... or else i thinik u shud ask him straight up " (whatever his name is ), i've been thinkin bout it and i wanna know whut u think bout us goin out " and it wud be best to do it b4 u both be in da same school and den if u DO get together it'll be kool cuz when u go to da same if he goes to ur's den he'll already be known by ur friends and vice versa ... .hope it works out !!!
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Friday November 26 2004, 9:40 pm: Hey hunny,
I think you should ask him now to be your boyfriend because its now or never. But anyways about the asking him part :), just be like what do you want for christmas or hannukah or w/e you celebrate and when he answeres be like "well I want you for christmas!" i think thats the cutest thing and thts how my boyfriend asked me out. It sounds like you guys have a strong foundation and the realtionship will work out perfectly even if you guys are going to different schools for 4 weeks :)
G/L
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Friday November 26 2004, 9:36 pm: Girl go for him! Don't wait! Hmmm... i don't know how you should ask him.... maybe like, "I've been thinking about it, and i really really want to be more than JUST friends..." And i dunno! Maybe he will pick it up from there, lol. I hoped i helped!! :)
CandYkaHne answered Friday November 26 2004, 9:36 pm: Yes you should just go for it!! Start by telling him your feelings...i wouldnt ask him out but thats just me. Id tell him how much i liked him and then hed be forced to say his feelings and see what goes from there. [ CandYkaHne's advice column | Ask CandYkaHne A Question ]
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