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boyfriend always backs out
me and my bfs relationship is not very well right now...we jsut got into a small fight a week ago and made up but we havent seen eachother for a week...we always see eachother every other day....and its mostly his fault....idk...im really pissed....he is @ the mall right by my house right now....and he called from his older brothers cell and sed if i wanted 2 meet up there with him i said ya but i had no ride and i didnt wanna walk and *he coulda offered to come swing by my house n pick me up* and then he was like well my older bro is about to leave so i wont ahv a fone but my friend is comin so ill call u back frmo his phone n see wat he wants to do (like if they wer just gonna come over) and he sed hed call me bak...and HE HASNT its been over an hour....HE ALWAYS DOES THIS....whenever we make plans THEY NEVER HAPPEN....how can i talk to hmi bout this i dont wanna break up with him i really love hmi (we been together for 11 months)...but lately hes been pissin me off....wat do i say??=[
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grr thats annoying isnt it? next time u shud make the plans from start to finish u arange the rides and calls and places so he cant screw it up. think about the things he likes such as if he likes rock music, suggest a locol rock show or if he likes sports go to a AAA team base ball game or skating. or just somthing as plain as a movie but if u dont wanna break up with him but ur getting mad.....become a threat. make him feel like hes letting u down make him feel guilty like hes gunna lose u and that will hit him like a ton of bricks that he should try to get with you more. i hope i helped u
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u jus need to tell him wut u really think in person not on the phone or aim u need to build up courage and talk to him. tell him exactly what u feel and how he can get better at this... in a nice way of course. tell him it has been buggin u for a while and that u really don't want to lose him and jus ask him to straighten up. good luck!! ; D
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Maybe you should talk to him and just tell him and if he acts like he dont care about your feelings then you need to just tell him like it is. Maybe if you start doing the same thing he will realize that you both need to spend more time with eachother and will start calling you back when he says he will. Hope it all works out for you!!!!
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sit him down and tell him how it feels like you 2 are falling apart! Tell him that you still ove him adn you dont want to break up but u just want to let him know how u feel! A boyfriend should want to hang out sometimes...but they do need space just like girls..if you are with your boyfriend everyday your going to want space to hang out with your gurl, no what i mean? Good luck! x3-*Sara
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