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ok my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks now and it seem like we arnt going anywhere. i mean we have gone to the movies 2 times and out to eat twice and then ice skating and we held hands during both movies but he wont kiss me or anything. is he afraid? what can i do to get him to kiss me? his friends and my friends have told him too but he wont. what can i do to get our relationship going. or is he showing me signs that he has no feelings for me? please help me. thanks.
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It's only been three weeks! Give it time..he's probably just nervous. I'm sure he has feelings for you or you two wouldn't be going out, but not all guys are comfortable making the first move. If you really want to, then you do it! =)He'll come around though. He's probably just unsure of how you're feeling, so let him know.
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hmm... toughy... well I think you are the one that is moving too fast.. it's not that normal for couples to be kissing in 3 weeks.. kissing is an intimate bond and should only be expressed when both people love eachother... you should talk to him one on one and ask him how he feels and not what his or your friends say..
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I think that you should just give him a little more time. Some guys don't want to go toooo fast with relationships. If a month or so goes by, then you can talk to him and just tell him how you feel. I hope that I can help!
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it may be that jus isnt ready to put the moves on you yet. try and talk to him bout it. if you dont ask him whats up you will never know. good luck ~*Alexis*~
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i think you should kiss him
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Try making the first move and kissing him!
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its not that he has no feelings.. maybe he is accually a respectful guy and is waiting for you to be ready... or he may not be ready.. and dont force him.. that will end the realationship.. let me know how it goes! (how old are yall!?)
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MAKE TEH 1ST MOVE THEN! NOT 2 HARD JUSS GO 2 TEH MOVIES AND MAKE THE 1ST MOVE N START MAKIN OUT W. HIM OR ATLEAST GIVE HIM A PECK KISS GOODNITE!
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this is the 21st century. why are you waiting on him to kiss you? make the first move, but remember if he's not ready to kiss you, then you cant force him.
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Maybe he is nervous! Give him a chance...maybe you should make the 1st move and show him you care! After you make the moe then say sutmhing to him and ask why then he will proubley idmit to being scared or neverous! Some guys have fears of being rejected...so bottom line is maybe you should try and make a move if you dont he is man enough! ;-) Love Ya! Good Luck! x33*sara
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make sure that he feels comfortable around you
if he feels like you/friends are pushing him to kiss you, he probably gets nervous about doing it. so just make sure that hes not being pressured to kiss you, and it will happen naturally on its own.
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Chances are your boyfriend is just shy. You could try making the first move yourself and see what kind of response you get. If you get a negative response, then ask him if he doesn't like you or if he just isn't comfortable with the touchy part of relationships. There are some people (like my friend Becca) who have a personal space bubble, and they don't like to be touched very much. Either way, you should talk it out with your boyfriend and see if he just isn't ready for those steps in your relationship or if he's just nervous or if he's trying to tell you through lack of kissing that he doesn't have feelings for you. (I highly doubt the cause for not kissing you is because he doesn't like you, but I guess you never know.) Just sit him down and talk with him about it - otherwise, you'll never know! Oh, and one more point: just because you guys aren't getting anywhere in the kissing department does NOT mean your relationship isn't getting anywhere. It's not all about that, you know! ;)
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He's probably just not ready for that. Give him some time, and don't rush him into something he doesn't want to do yet. Good luck..hope I helped :P
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