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should i dump him?
ok im in 7th grade and i have a 9th grade boyfriend and i never see him!!! he went to a party tonight at the movies and i couldnt go bc my mom wouldnt let me.. but he could and this one gurl that i think likes him went too and i dunno if he'll do something with her..shes in 8th grade.. i dont know what to do!? I rele rele like him but everybody says i should dump him but i dont know.. i dont wanna hurt him because i feel if i was too brake up with him, id like him after a day and i would wanna be back with him but he'd say no, thats how i feel and hes so hot and nice but my friend wyatt who helps with anything says im gonna get hurt or hes gonna play me and that he think he likes other gurls..ugh i dont know what to do.. im so confused!! i Mean i love him to death but it just dont feel right i mean im soo attempted to flirt with other guys at my school ugh he prolly flirts with other gurls too...omg i dont wanna hurt him but i gotta do whats best:( what should i do? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me...*Ashlee*
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Why does it matter if you are in different grades? If he wanted to go out with someone in his year then he would have. But he chose you because he obviously really likes you and want s to be with you and no one else. Just because youre going out doesn't mean you have to do everything together. My boyfriend and I often have nights where I go out with my friends or he goes out with his. That doesn't mean that he is going to cheat on you. Why does everyone say you should dump him? Surely its up to you anyway. If you feel strongly about one another, which you obviously do, then you will be able to work it out.
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I think you should dump him because you never get to see him and you seem ike you can't trust him and a relationship is a lot about trust! You have a greater chance of him cheating on you with that other girl! Also you shouldn't feel bad breaking up with him because he probally will get over you really fast he'll probally go out with that other girl in the same day you break up with him...and i know it might be hard for you to get over him but there will be other guys out there that you can go out with in te future!
~goodluck~
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Chelly
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i think it's really hard to try and date across schools like that, because it's all the distance in such a young relationship.
totally random, but your friend wyatt may like you a tad.
i think it could probably be really helpful to be unattached right now, because then you'd be free to flirt with those your age, and you'd be able to potentially see the guy you date more often than never.
good luck! let me know how it goes
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im not srry to say, becasue it is the righ choice, you should dump him, you should never feel like you dont trust him, or even feel the urge to flirt with other guys, and he is older than he he should know that if he went to a party that u couldnt go, you would think for the worse, and he should have concidered that, this relationship dosnt sound like it will last, so its best if u dump him not wait till he dumps you, but look on the bright side there are alot of other guys out there...ALOT!!!..lol you will get over him when you find a good guy, hope that helps (DIP/)
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Sorry, but i think that you should dump him. I mean, if you love him like you say, why are you so tempted to flirt with other guys at your school? I don't think that its gonna hurt his feelings because...like you said...you never get to see each other. Sorry to break it to you but, he's probablly flirting with other girls in his grade. You don't deserve this! So just go ahead and do what you want, but i think you should dump him. Go back to those guys that you were tempted to flirt w/...and flirt w/ them. Just forget about your 9th grade friend. You're mom will also trust a guy closer to your age. Good luck and i hope i help!! ~amc~
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