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Annoying Friend
Well i have thins friend lets call him Jen. Well Jen is so ANNOYING she follows me around EVERYWHERE. Everything i do she does. (ex: i color my hair, she does the same. i cut my bangs, she does the same. i make up crazy words, she says she did.) its getting really anoying and i cannot even joke with her about things and then she gets all mad. even my friends know her for a month and thinks she is annoying. She even tried to steal my BF and she didn't even like him she just wanted a bf. She also like a guy after one hour of knowing him. She always complains about not having a bf and i will never have one. and i cannot do much about. So what should i do be friends or not?
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no way, hun. DROP HER. We dont need a world full of posers and copy cats. You are your own unique person, and she needs to be her own. Tell it to her gently but be firm. Tell her that you can be friends with her if she stops copying you.
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befriender of thee annoying,
i see we have a copycat. it sounds to me that she is kind of envious. she prolly doesn't even realise that she is doing it- for the most part. you could prolly label her as overly obessevive, but you did say you've only known her for a month. it sounds like she is trying to fit it. there is something about you and your friends that appeal to her and she wants to be apart of it. you should just tell her _without joking_ that she is a nice girl but you hate her stalkerish ways. tell her that friends are individual and if they all cut their hair the same way or etc there would be no fun because nothing would be spontaneous. the cutting the hair thing must of set you over the edge, but there has to be more to it than that. it sounds like a desperate attempt to fit in. i hope you use my advice and it helps. also please rate me. DON'T FORGET TO UPDATE ME!
~~ItalianPrincess~~
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A good friend would never try to steal from you...
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If she is being annoyting you should tell her and you should also yell her that she nneds to be her self to get a boyfriend not to be just like her tell her how you feel
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Think of it as a compliment, because she wants to be just like you. But tell her that you don't like it, and to stop. She'll probably get embarrassed and stop. Also, tell her that she can't go around stealing your bf, and to get her own. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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You should tell her that she needs to lay back a little. If she starts to get mad while you're saying this then tell her to calm down and let you finish. Explain how this is annoying you and you feel (and are correct) that it is very rude to try and steal your boy friend. If she storms off she's not a real friend because a real friend would understand. I hope I helped!
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You should talk to her about it and see her side of the story. Maybe she's insecure and you're her only 'good' friend. Sit her down and talk. After that talk is when you need to decide if its worth being friends or not.
JyNxiE
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have you talked to her about this? when you tell her, try not to be so rude about it.. cause it seems to me she looks up to you and wants to be exactly like you. tell her she's her own person and she shouldn't try to change who she is to be like someone else. that's what makes people unique.
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No u shud ditch her or at least tell her to stop copyin u
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Just tell her nicely to stop. if she doesnt then she is really weird..Everyone is different in their own unique way and apparently she doesnt see that. if she keeps it up after u kindly told her to stop then just stop talking to her..if she keeps on copying u....maybe she'll stop talking to u 2! hope i helped!! ~amc~
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ignore her and tel her to stop doing the same thing as her.it should help if it doest ask for another answer.hope it helps
from the monkeys
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its really your choice if you want to be friends with tht person. Just tell he or she how you feel about what they have been doing latly. Just dont jump to conclusions before you talk to he or she. I have been in a similar situation with one of my best friends and I just talked to her about it and she stopped what she was doing. Just try and be nice about it at first, and if she doesnt get the point then make her get it.Rate me!
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