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confused lover (please help relationship experts)
Well I am 14 years old and in 9th grade of high school. I have this really cool girlfriend who goes to a different school and we have been going out for 4 months. I also have this girl who's my best friend who I've started to like too. I can also hint that she likes me and I've been thinking about possibly asking her out. I mean, I love my girlfriend but i don't know what i should do. I know it isn't fair to like someone else while you're going out with someone so I wanted to know what you guys thought.
Thanks,
Confused
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Man, you gotta chose one. I say chose your best friend cause you liked her before you became attracted to her, which means that your relationship will probably be much more meaningful. Anyways, whoever you chose, you should stay friends with the other.
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You're right, it isn't fair to like someone else while you're going out with someone. You should definitely choose one of these two girls. List the pros and cons of each girl like who do you see or talk to more often and who makes you feel better? I think you should pick your best friend, since you like and and she might like you and that you see her more often. It isn't fair for your girlfriend to be lead on as in that she doesn't know that you like someone else. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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There are some things that you have to think about:
1. Is the distance between you and your girlfriend keeping ya'll from anything that you could have at YOUR school?
2. Who do you like more?
3. Do you want to possibly ruin your friendship with your best friend?
4. If you go for the girl at your school, do you want to possibly lose the friendship with your girlfriend?
I personally think you should stay with the girl at the other school but its completely up to you :o)
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Often times when you're in a relationship with the same person for a long time, you start to notice your attraction to other people more. Attraction will always occur, regardless if whether your in a relationship or not, and regardless of how you feel about anyone else. However if you think too much of this attraction you'll start to consider the possibility of having a relationship with this person, even though you already have a great girlfriend.
I think you should just ignore your feelings for her, especially since they're not very strong and since you're already in a healthy relationship. If things start to get more intense, I would suggest just taking a break from relationships all together to figure things out.
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you cant keep secrets from your girl. tell her that you are sorry but you've been having feelings for another girl. if you really like her as much as you say then you wouldn't be thinking of getting with your friend. the best thing is to tell your g/f because there is nothing worse than a cheater.
~ANGE
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Your g/f goes to a different school. You see ure friend everyday. If u love your g/f y r u thinking about another girl. just choose..i would go for the friend!
*~amc~*
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your right its not fair to your GF now and its not fair that if you are starting to like someone else to lead her on. that could almost hurt her more when she finds out you like someone else too. so go with wut you think will make you happier. i mean if you do ask out this friend of yours u would c her more.. but is it worth lossing the gurl you LOVE?
hope i helped
.:*livvy*:.
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okay...cheating is wrong, liking isn't as long as it's lust aka crush otherwise...choose!
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