ok so i`m a freshman and the guy i like is a sophmore. he knows i like him and a little while ago i thought he liked me back. about a week ago i found out that he has a date to the --girls ask guys-- dance, and the other night on the phone, i was like so who are you going to the dance with? and he said, this girl from piner and he kind of likes her and he asked her out but she said she needs to get to know him better. he told me all of this and he NEW that i like him... i dont get it. and theres someone right infront of his face [me] that will like him more than any1 else ever will... i dont see y he doesnt just take it when he has the chance. should i give up on liking him? i`ve liked him for a while, but he hasn`t liked me. i dont know what to do. xOx
Melaur1001 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 11:07 pm: I would, not nessisarily "give up" on him, but tell this guy your glad ya'll are "just" freinds still and nothing more, or atleast "hint" it, then show up at the girls ask guys dance with a super hott junior or something, and wave at him when hes with his girl friend who isn't sure that they like him, so I guess I'm saying to just make him jelous! have fun and be safe :o) [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
angieroonie answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 10:59 pm: he was obviously saying that he likes someone else because he isn't into you. just be friends with him... you may be infront of his face and you may like him more than any1 else ever will but if he hasn't got feelings for you then it wouldn't work anyway.
lildiamyn_69 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 10:42 pm: hmmm... this is a hard one, but i'll do what i can.it sounds like even though he knows you like him, he might just need you as a friend to tell things to.
if i were in your position, I wouldn't stop liking him right away, because emotions are hard to control and you may start beating yourself up.
I would go out and find someone else who likes me back and try to focus on the new boy instead of the sophomore. Good luck!
*Diamyn* [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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