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he wont take a hint
ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!
~*wants nothing to do with him*~
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I hate to say it (no offense, guys), but a lot of guys are really dense as far as hints go. You might have to be straightforward about this. You don't need to make a huge scene, however, to get someone off your back. Just go up to him one day, and tell him you want to talk to him. Be gentle about letting him know that you don't like him in that way. Assure him that he's a nice guy, but you don't feel the same way about him that he does about you. Let him know gently that you'd like him to stop writing you notes and e-mail you.
If he doesn't let up, then you can get bitchy about it, lol. But for now, be nice and see where it can get you. Hope this helps. -Siren =)
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just sit him down and tell him that hes a nice but you dont like him that way n u just wanna be friends
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if u have no personal feelings for him then ya deff go up to him make a huge scence and tell him to stop ....if ur friends wit him then write him a note or e-mail explaining it ...its a lil softer .....hope it helps.... Plz rate me....~*~ cesca~*~
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WELL, LET ME SEE, IM A GUY, AND UNFORTUNATELY, I HAVE FELT LIKE THIS TOWARDS A GIRL, IT'S CALLED GIRL CRAZY SYNDROME, YOU NEED TO PUT HIM INTO REALITY, CHECK, AND LET HIM, BUT BEING POLITE LIKE YOU SHOULD, OR LIKE A LADY SHOULD, j/K KNOW THAT YOU DON'T LIKE HIM VERY BLUNT AND TO THE POINT, AND GIVE HIM TEN REASONS WHY AND THATS IT, MEAN MAYBE, REALITY YES, YOUR LIFE YES, HIS RIGHT TO BE IN YOUR SPACE NO,
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You don't have to make a huge scene. But in the next not or email just say "Hey, you are really nice and all but i dont like you as more than a friend or anything. Im sorry. But maybe we can just stay friends." Or something along those lines. Just tell him how you feel but just make sure its not a big scene. Hope i helped and good luck :)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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wow, you're a little bit violent in my opinion. unblock him on AOL and explain to everything you just explained in your question. he'll soon get the picture that you don't like him...start over maybe...become friends. it's always nice to start fresh with someone.
Hope that helped.
Chloe*
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Wow, well it might seem mean but the best way to get rid of him would just be to tell him that you dont like him. Just be like, I understand you like me but i'm sorry i dont like you. Or you could also make up an excuse like, I have a bf already, i'm lesbian lol, or something. Good luck with that.
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Hey babe... well this can be annoying haha! I would say Go up to him (if you've had really Enough_) and say "please stop trying to be with me. :)" and then if he still is bugging you, then go up to him again and say "okay buddy maybe you don't get it- i want nothing to do with you" lol, and he sould get it that time ;) but don't break his heartat fist, give him a chance to stop, but if he doesnt- then tell him whose boss lol ! oxo
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U need to tell him...if u have already, tell him again. apparently he doesn't understand the meaning of get away b/c i dont like u. So just tell him again..and only if u need to resort to making a scene..DO IT!
Hope i helped..~
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You don't need to make a huge scene. What you need to do is be assertive. Pull him aside and let him know you aren't interested in him or his attention but be nice about it-think about how you'd feel if you were head over heels about some guy. So be gentle but firm-let him know it makes you uncomfortable. I hope this helps but if not be careful...he could potentially become a stalker!!! Best of luck lemme know how it turns out
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