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well i went out with a guy for about 7 months. then we broke up. i really love him and he always tells me that he still loves me and misses me. he was acting like he wanted to go back out w/ me. so i tryed to get him back but last night i found out that he wouldnt go back out w/ me. now there are two really hot guys that want to go out w/ me. but i still love my ex-boyfriend. i like the two other guys a lot but i dont want a boyfriend because im still not over my ex. now i dont know wut to do!! what do u think? what guy should i go w/ or none at all?

well....
you can think about these 3 things:

1) Who is hotter? Your ex or these 2 guys?! haha!
2) Who is nicer?
3) Who would be the better boyfriend right now? Who would love you and take care of you more?

Well, think about those always! Talk 2 ya later!

Hope that somewhat helped!

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ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!

~*wants nothing to do with him*~

wow, you're a little bit violent in my opinion. unblock him on AOL and explain to everything you just explained in your question. he'll soon get the picture that you don't like him...start over maybe...become friends. it's always nice to start fresh with someone.
Hope that helped.

Chloe*

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i live by this guy and i have liked him forever...since i was 3 so thats about 11 years. okok its not forever but it really seems like it. and theres a another girl that lives by us but shes a year younger than us. and they went out for while. and then they broke up and im not sure if he wants to get back together with her. im thinking he does. and we dont really talk as much as we used to before they started dating. and i want him to just forget about her because she has already moved on, but he is still hooked on her and i have been hooked on him for way to long and everyone says i should just give up, but i never will.....please help thanks

The only thing I can say is...tell him how you feel. Have you ever even told you at any point in those 11 years that you liked him? If you don't have the guts to do that, just ask him if he's still hooked on that girl and why. Before my boyfriend (now Ex BF) went out, he had a girlfriend he was hooked on and I asked him "Why do you like this girl?" and he told me. Later on, I figured he was going to break up with her. I told him how I felt and he said he felt the same way, instantly forgot about his GF and we started to go out. He broke up with his GF about a week later. So maybe you'll be just as lucky!! I'm sure he'll like you! :-D
Hope that helped answer your question!

Ask me anything anytime!

~Chloe*

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Is Wiccan like some cult thing?

Wiccan is an actual religion I believe.

~Chloe*

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Ok there is a guy I really really like! Tomorrow I have class with him. How can I get him to notcie me or at least look at me?! There is a winter ball coming up and I would really like to be asked! We are friends but I want to be more..what can I do or say?

Just smile at him! If you have the guts to talk to him and face him, just walk by his desk or something and say hi. Keeping it short n sweet always helps. If he's interested he'll talk to you or try to get into conversation with you!
Good luck!
Hope that helped!

~Chloe*

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating about 3 months on the 24th...But he still doesn't understand my hints. How do I get him to understand my hints without me saying what I want out right?

^ trippen ^

Just remind him you guys are going out. Guys sometimes forget they have girlfriends..its just really weird. Get him a three months anniversary present...I'm sure he'd like that. :-D
Hope that helped.

~Chloe*

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I need help getting my toe touch. I just can't get it high enough. I stretch everyday and still not progress. People tell me to "roll my hips" but I dont know what they mean. Help!

Hey don't worry we're not all cheerleaders!
LOL.

I'm trying out for varsity cheer @ my school in a couple of years myself! I have never even thought of cheer but I realized I have really good jumps. What I did to work on my toe touch was to stretch everyday for a couple of minutes. Then I did the splits as far as I could for a minute and everyday I'd try and go down even lower till I hit the ground. Trust me, the more overload you put on yourself you can always improve! But if you keep the same pace, you wont improve...so PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT in this case. Hehe!
Hope that helped!

~Chloe*

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I really like this guy. Idont know if he likes me. He does have another girlfriend but says that he wants to break up with her.What should I do to get him to like me?

WOW! This is exactly what happened to me!

I liked this guy and he had a girlfriend too! I became good friends with him and it lead up to us becoming BEST friends. We used to hang out all the time, etc. I totally forgot one day that he had a girlfriend..and I told him how I felt about him. Well guess what?! I totally thought he was going to reject me and that I had made a BIG mistake! It turns out, he liked me too and he broke up with his girlfriend and we went out for a year and a half! He was also my first BF too! hehe! :-D....so try it! it may work!
Sorry if that didn't help.

~Chloe*

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Alrighty...well let's see if anyone has any ideas on what I should do. :) Okay, well I've really liked this boy for way over a year and we went out most of the time I liked him. While we broke up though he's gone out with one girl and I've been with like two other guys but really we always seem to find eachother! But I really really really like him still, we had a few flings in the past couple months, and he has called me like everyday for a long time...up to a little bit ago and I didn't know what was up. Then I found out he asked out this other girl and my friend asked him why he hasn't asked me out yet (because he told her that he was going to but to keep it on the d/l) and he said it was because I never call him or talk to him at school. Well the thing is I do call him but not a lot and whenever I try to call him he calls me before and I tell him and he never believes me! Well now I'm trying to talk to him more in school so we don't seperate and then he don't like me anymore because I don't know what I would do! But everytime I try to do that he never talks back really because I think he totally gave up on us to. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do about this! Please please help, it's really upsetting me and I don't know what I will do!

Take it slow.
I think he's a little paranoid. He is afraid you don't like him....and trust me, I think you do. Just explain to him "Look, i know you like me and I like you too, but please just give me a chance to try and make this work. I promise to call you as often as I can..I can get busy sometimes, but feel free to call me."

Sorry if that didn't help. :-(

~Chloe*

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Ok im aditioning for a school play and everytime a start to say my lines infront of my teacher i get so nervouse, shaky, and i just freeze and/or forget my lines. Can someone please tell me some ways how to calm myself and someways to remember my lines better? thankyou all very much, i rate good!

Pretend like you are ALL BY YOURSELF when you are auditioning, reading lines, singing, dancing, whatever. I am a theater person myself and I USED to get stage fright and I used tobe just like you! Don't worry, I'm sure you have lots of talent to offer and I'm sure once you read lines, or sing or anything in front of people, they'll realize what a GREAT actress/singer you are!
:-D

~Chloe*

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theres this guy i like, his name is collin. hes really good friends with my friend jessica. i think collin likes me but thinks he doesnt have a chance with me. i've asked him to come to dances and stuff with us but he always doesnt come. i know he likes me alot and i like him but he just doesnt know i like him. i guess what im asking is how do i get him to notice i like him without seeming too obvious?? thanx alot

I think Collin could be a little bit shy around girls.
What if he's had a past experience with a girl that has made him afraid of liking them?

Take it slow and don't push it too much. Try not to ask him all the time to dances and the movies, etc. I'm sure if you started of slowly and just became super good friends with Collin, he'd be asking you out in no time! :-D

~Chloe*

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