well i went out with a guy for about 7 months. then we broke up. i really love him and he always tells me that he still loves me and misses me. he was acting like he wanted to go back out w/ me. so i tryed to get him back but last night i found out that he wouldnt go back out w/ me. now there are two really hot guys that want to go out w/ me. but i still love my ex-boyfriend. i like the two other guys a lot but i dont want a boyfriend because im still not over my ex. now i dont know wut to do!! what do u think? what guy should i go w/ or none at all?
drjwlc4 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 9:45 am: i dont think you should go out with anyone yet because once you start to love them when you still have feelings for you ex its not fair to those other guys because you still care for your ex and if those other guys really like you then they will wait to go out with you since your not over your ex so just dont go with anyone yet hope i helped rate me
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silverkissofdeath answered Sunday January 30 2005, 9:27 am: Dearest, if your still not over your ex and don't want to have another boyfriend yet, then simply don't. tell them your not over your last break-up and you need sometime. if they are worth haveing as a boyfriend they'll wait for you. and as for your ex, sounds like a big jerk, you can find someone much better, good luck.
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PiNkTiNkGiRl22 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 2:07 am: well....
you can think about these 3 things:
1) Who is hotter? Your ex or these 2 guys?! haha!
2) Who is nicer?
3) Who would be the better boyfriend right now? Who would love you and take care of you more?
AllyKnows answered Sunday January 30 2005, 1:45 am: it looks to me as if your ex was leading you on a bit there. i think maybe he just wanted to see if you wanted him but pretending he wanted you. it was cool of you to try again and go for what you want, that took guts and i give you props for that. about these 2 other guys, well if ur not over your ex, you prolly shouldn't go out with them. i mean, you could if you really truly wanted to but it's just not fair to them to be in love with someone and go out with them. that could blow up in your face and you got things to deal with now. i think that you should just take some time to move on from ur ex-boyfriend and not go out with anyone. after all you don't need a guy to be happy or have fun. just take some time for urself and when you feel you're ready you should go out with people, but only then. good luck with everything, i hope it all works out.
:)
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