Alrighty...well let's see if anyone has any ideas on what I should do. :) Okay, well I've really liked this boy for way over a year and we went out most of the time I liked him. While we broke up though he's gone out with one girl and I've been with like two other guys but really we always seem to find eachother! But I really really really like him still, we had a few flings in the past couple months, and he has called me like everyday for a long time...up to a little bit ago and I didn't know what was up. Then I found out he asked out this other girl and my friend asked him why he hasn't asked me out yet (because he told her that he was going to but to keep it on the d/l) and he said it was because I never call him or talk to him at school. Well the thing is I do call him but not a lot and whenever I try to call him he calls me before and I tell him and he never believes me! Well now I'm trying to talk to him more in school so we don't seperate and then he don't like me anymore because I don't know what I would do! But everytime I try to do that he never talks back really because I think he totally gave up on us to. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do about this! Please please help, it's really upsetting me and I don't know what I will do!
Additional info, added Monday November 15 2004, 5:08 pm: Oh yeah...and people are saying to talk to him in school...and that's straight but I never know what to say to him. Like when I go up to him at school like when he is at his locker for instance I don't want to just stand there and look stupid and not say anything, so what should I say?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PiNkTiNkGiRl22 answered Monday November 15 2004, 4:49 pm: Take it slow.
I think he's a little paranoid. He is afraid you don't like him....and trust me, I think you do. Just explain to him "Look, i know you like me and I like you too, but please just give me a chance to try and make this work. I promise to call you as often as I can..I can get busy sometimes, but feel free to call me."
Jebediah0320 answered Monday November 15 2004, 4:45 pm: you must be like in 6th grade cuz when u get older dont ask each other out u just bone. alot of boning. hold on im getting a boner. adam hipsch took his shirt off. O.D.B./Old Dirty Bastard/Durt McGurt/Old Dirty Chinese Restaurant died the other day. WTF BITCH!!! [ Jebediah0320's advice column | Ask Jebediah0320 A Question ]
SPfanatic101090 answered Monday November 15 2004, 4:28 pm: i think u should just talk to him at school and see how he reacts twords u. if he is still being the same then its just him, he might even be messing with ur mind because he know he can. just talk to him and see where that gets u. hopefully things will work out for u.
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BotheredAndBroken13 answered Monday November 15 2004, 4:13 pm: Well good, at least you're still trying. I'm sorry about your situation, but once you find something worth keeping, hold onto it. Call him, tell him how much he still means to you, and how sorry you are for letting things fall apart. Explain that you really do care and even if you didn't call him as much as he called you, it doesn't mean feelings weren't there. Be sincere when you talk to him about this. Guys think girls are bad with emotions, well guys are worse. Don't pout to him, but show your feelings. Besides, if you two have found each other before I'm sure you will again. Good luck, i hope it all works out for the best, -Jor* [ BotheredAndBroken13's advice column | Ask BotheredAndBroken13 A Question ]
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