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how can i get rid of a zit FAST b4 it gets way bigger?!?!
well,theres really nuthing to do.dont pop it unless its like really bad.
I hate my life and I have a lot of problems. My dad left me when I was 3 years old and he lives in Tenneessee with his girlfriend and my half brother. I only get to see them once a year on Christmas. My half sister lives about 45 mins away from me and I only get to see her about every other weekend and on some holidays. My mom lives about 30 mins away from where I live with her boyfriend. They are getting on my nerves because she wants me to move in with them and I don't want to be away from my friends or switch schools again. I live with my grandparents. I have gone through a lot these past 2 or 3 years. I moved away from all my friends in the 3rd grade (Im in 7th grade now), but my best friend changed to the same school as me. Then She moved About 2 and 1/2 hours away in the 4th grade and I didn't even know untill about 2 or 3 days after she left and I hardly ever get to see her. Also school is really stressing me out. A few days ago I cut myself and im thinking about doing it angain. I snap rubberbands on my rist and I get bruses and scars from it. I am thinking about going goth but im probably not. I just have a really bad life. I was wondering if anyone could give my any advice on how I can try to make it better. It's ok if you can't i know it's probably hard to give advice like this. Please and thanks.
~*~Britt~*~
theres no reason to cut yourself,or become goth.ino ur really hurting inside,but what will cutting yourslef and becoming gothic do?please don't cut yourself.when i saw that you did that,it felt like my best friend was telling me that she was doing it.there's no point.its just phsyical pain that wont take away your emotional pain.and becoming gothic..please dont!its kinda scary..lol
hey its tricia. I have been thinkin' for a long time about what i want to be when i grow up and i am stumped. my parents ask me all the time and it is starting to get important because i can either have a mentor or take extra curricular activity. people say i should become a physiciatris because i help people with relationships and hardships too. do you kno where i can take an apptitude test online or maybe since we hav known each other for like ever, what do you think i could be?
tricia
dont worry!just pray about it!
why does god hate me?
God does not hate you He loves you sooooo much.dont ever say that.God sent His Son 2 die for you so that you could go to heaven!
Every time I go to my friend she always jokes with me saying that "Oh here comes lil miss christian girl" and "Oh great your going to preach to us are'nt you." I know she is just playing but I wish I could witness to her without being made fun of.
you can talk to God,and you can tell her how you feel when she says that.I've done that before and my friend understood and it didn't happen nemore!so give it a shot!and make sure you pray about it!!
My cousin lives far away and I get to see her like maybe two months a year well the last time I saw her she said that she has done to many things for God to love her and so she has became an atheist. I don't know what to do except pray but I feel like I need to do more for her. Every time I ask a question on this website no one gives me good answers that I can relate to so please don't let me down!
Well you can tell your cousin that God loves her more than she could know.She needs to have Him in her life or she will go to hell.and its the truth.And what does she mean shes done too many things for God?You can never do too many things for God!look at what He did 4 us!He sent His only Son to die for us so that we could go to heaven!
I have been an athiest for about four years, and I have begun to feel lacking in that area. I looked up many differnt religions, and took trusted belief tests to see what would best fit with what I really want and believe. The tests all pointed to Pagan. I have looked up on it, and it just seems to fit. I feel so happy, even just going through a normal day is better now that I have found it. However, I do not think my parents (catholic and athiest) will accept it. Anyone who has had a similar "coming out" (be it of religion or sexual orientation) care to help me form a plan, so they might see my view?
Blessed Be
well i can tell you now,that a test will not tell you what religion u should be.u claim ur athiest,so therefore if there is no God,how did we get here,and wat is our purpose?oh,and what will happen when we die?
okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.
-birthday girl
ask her why she would want to commit suicide..tell her that her death is not her place to decide,its God's choice,He created her and He loves her very much.i dont no what else to say!just really mean it wen u say it so she knows that you care about her and i would tell an adult.If it is you,then please don't and reconsider.If you need a friend,i'll be your friend!just please dont make this horrible mistake.God loves you sooo much and this isn't a part of His plan for you.
I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment.
well im sorry you mite not like hearing this but,God,heaven,satan,and hell are very real.seriously,like what are we here for then?whats gonna happen wen you die?
this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do.
talk to them,try to get them to notbe prejuduce and tell them how much you really love him and that it has nuthiung to do with skin color!
i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo no no no,who cares what they think IGNORE THEM!!
So what do you all eat when you are fasting? I am having a difficult time cutting out meat and cheese. I can manage to do without the meat, but I didn't realize how much cheese and yogurt played into my life. Any tips?
u either eat nuthing but water or...idn i thought fasting was all pray and no eat!
I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop?
so you dont believe in God?
if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.
I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do
talk to God!
a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen.
ok well dont focous on nething else but God.talk 2 Him and he will help you i promise.
I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?
give me ur sn ill totally b able to talk to you about this..my sn is hottpink2010
In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?
On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?
No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.
Dr Kesha
omgosh God exists!!God didn't make the tsunami happen, nobody really nos why,at least i dont,but i still trust God and no that He did it 4 a reason,althought i dont no what it is.
I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all
God luvs you soooo so so so much!!dont ever say that He does'nt!!He luvs you more than you could imagine...just tlk 2 Him and He'll get rid of all that bad stuff!!God Luvs You!!!!!
Hi, I noticd that you added me to your list of Favorite Columnists...thx...*D.C.G.*darkcoffeegurl
lol ur welcumm =D
I don't mean to bash the religion, but I'm sick of it. I live in Utah, so I'm surrounded by it. And everyone is always bringing up that the religion should be more a part of the school. Well, I don't believe in any of it. Personally, I think their religion was just founded on Joseph Smith trying to steal other men's wives and get away with it. And they have a class here. How do they get away with having a religiously oriented class in a public school, isn't that infringing on the separation of church and state clause? My question is how do I deal with all of this religion when I don't want it, especially since all the guys that I could date are mormon?
well you don't have to be mormon you can be Christian!its a better life,and you'll go to heaven!