ok...here was my question before and thanks to all that answered it. "i was talking to this guy i like (he likes me too)about personal stuff, and he said that he was more submissive. and it was really random...do you think he was trying to tell me something, like getting me to make the first move? or was he just saying that."
well i asked him about hanging out and we've been trying to get together...but we cant find a time. and i dont know what to say anymore. i want to be able to say something like "hey since you like me and i like you lets seriously find sometime to hang out." but im the shyest person ever and dont know if i can bring myself to say that...if you have any suggestions that would be awesome! thanks
Airie answered Monday August 16 2004, 10:21 pm: I think he was trying to say something. A lot of guys are shy, too, so he might not be ready to tell you how he feels by a fear of rejection. Continue being friends with him, and casually ask him questions like, "Wouldn't it be cool if we were going out? That would be so funny." Just keep it casual. And who knows, something could progress from there.
vlucky40 answered Monday August 16 2004, 9:44 pm: I know someone JUST like this. It is very hard to pin these type of men down,,literally. You will have to make the first move. You say you talk a lot about personal stuff; don't make it too personal because that is what got me into trouble. It turned out my 'personal' stuff got him thinking and he didn't want to take the chance. Just casually ask him when is he available to 'hang out'. [ vlucky40's advice column | Ask vlucky40 A Question ]
xoQtBabyFacEox answered Monday August 16 2004, 9:36 pm: If you really like him and think he's not just playing you and that he's the one, you dont have to say "since you like me and i like you". just say that you want to hang out and that if he really wants to he will. or you can get the courage to say what you want. Either way you'll probably get him! Lemme kno wut happens!
xo' Jessica [ xoQtBabyFacEox's advice column | Ask xoQtBabyFacEox A Question ]
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