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Meeting
Okay, well, there's a guy I know from MSN who I've been talking to for about a year now, friend of a friend, never met him in person. Last year we mentioned that it might be interesting to actually meet, though he did think that it might be a little awkward, but twice our plans got screwed up one way or another so we just dropped the subject. I didn't speak to him all summer because his computer broke down, and when he came back on I thought maybe I'd mention our idea again. He said he thought it might still be weird, but I said we should give it a try anyway because there was nothing to lose. He agreed and even suggested a place we could meet. A few weeks later, on a Friday, I said how about Sunday and he said yes, but we didn't decide on a time or anything, and come Sunday I didn't see him online until the late afternoon and he didn't even bring up our half-made plans. Anyway, the point of all this is that I really don't know what to do, whether I should keep trying or not. I really want to meet him because I like his personality but for all I know he finds me annoying. I don't know whether to let it go for another while so as not to seem desperate, or if I should just confront him and ask him to just tell me whether he wants to meet me or not so I can go from there. I really don't want to sound pushy. Sorry this was so long, but any advice would help. Thanks.
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Just IM him and be like im really interested in meeting you. What do you think? Were you serious about meeting a while back? And if he does want to meet take like your best freind or like someone with you because it could turn out to be dangerous.
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Confront him. Ask him why this keeps happening and if he really wants to meet you. Tell him how you feel, if you don't then only God knows when you two will meet... And if you guys do meet I would suggest taking a friend a long. No matter how much you trust someone online and no matter how well you think you know them you never know.
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Just ask him. If you wanna know, then ask him! See if he really wants to meet you. If he just doesn't sound like he does, then I say you should move on. 'N you won't sound pushy, you just wanna know because he keeps holding it back. Or whatever he's trying to do. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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aswk him if he really wants to meet u or if he id=s kinda umcon=mfortable about it. And its a friends friend- they've met/. b/c if they have, whenever they go hang out maybe u can show up too...
XoxO Alissa-Marie
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Ask him if he really wants to meet you honestly and if he doesnt then ask him what he honestly thinks about you, if he doesnt seem interested it would probably be best to move on and find someone else
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