Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 10:03 am
ok me and my friend like the same guy and he is hotttt i mean burning hott and im afraid to tell him because i think he might over react and i really want to tell him because i think he might like me and if he doesnt i think he might like freak out or something and im like freaking out and scared to see how he will take it and when we go sit on the floor he trys to sit between me and my friend so im starting to think he likes both of us sorry its so long so please help me
blondebombshell33 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 12:31 pm: heY! this can defiately be a hard situation.... but remember the mOTTO: chIcks be4 dIcKs! This is just going 2 end up in a jealous fight (believe me) no matter who this Hottie might "pick" it will def. ruin ur friendship. guys come and go.... but friends r there 4ever. i kno it can be hard because i've been in this situation be4 but.... in the long run it will be worth it! i kno that this probably wasnt thr answer u wanted 2 hear and i kno this can be hard... but try 2 convince ur buddy that u should both go 4 diff. guys. but flirting is NOT a crime! (keep this guy in mind for later! she might find another guy who is ever so gorgeous!)
hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX [ blondebombshell33's advice column | Ask blondebombshell33 A Question ]
mshonest4eva answered Sunday September 19 2004, 12:03 pm: ask him if he likes her. if he like YESSS then backoff. if the subject is toucchy, then he might like u and u want to be careful bringing him up around friends.
Sherry answered Sunday September 19 2004, 11:54 am: Just tell him. I know its hard but I told a guy i had a major crush on that I liked him a lot and he payed more attention to me...He already likes to talk to you so whats the worst that could happen? Just say it and get it over with:) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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