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boyfriend out of reach
this guys at my school is so cute and funny and really awsome and nice, and i really like him.we're like best friends and people think he likes me which is great cuz i like him so we cold hook up or something...anyways the problem is i don't know how to tell him how i feel because i'm afraid he'll react badly to the situation and get all weird with me..how can i make sure none of that will happen and still know if he likes me?
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If he likes you, and you've heard off everyone that he likes you, and YOU like him, go for it, just get alone somehow and tell him how you feel, being direct is the best way. If your best friends, just tell him, don't worry about making things weird, cos they will be for a short time, maybe a week, but things will get back to normal as quick as they got to weird, so dont worry. Tell him how you feel, and i'm sure you'll go far. Hope i helped.
Good Luck :-)
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well what i would do is ask to talk to him in private and ask him not to freak out and tell that you like him and say that you think he likes you because everyone says he does
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Well i did this once there was this girl i really like and i was talking to her on the phone and i man im having this problem and i was saying i like this girl but i dont now like if i tell her what she would do like is she would not be the same with me, and she said she is having the same problem to. So she asked me if she cold know who it was and i said its you. and she said its you for me to and befor we went out we made a promise to eachother that whatever happened between us when we broke up we would still be best friends
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umm sorry, but you can never be sure. friends are not the best credential for that either. they might think things that aren't true, or they might be trying to make you feel good or something stupid like that.
making the frist move is always nerve racking so you can a. drop huge hints (like billboard size) and flirt and wait for him to make the first move, or b. you can tell him about your feelings for him and pray or something. theres no garentee. sorry.
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Well since you guys are like best friends, then tell him how you feel, I mean the worst thing that can happen is him saying no. But just tell him what you told us, just be like "I don't know how to tell you because I don't want you to because I'm afraid you'll react badly or get all weird with me, but I just want to tell you that I do like you and I just want to know how you feel about me.." Just say something like that and how you feel and stuff. I hope this helps and good luck hun. Tell me how it goes. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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