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my boyfriend
Ok im 15 f and i was going out with my b/f for 6 months and then we broke up,but like 2 weeks ago he asked me back out and i said yes.When i used to go out with him, i would go to his house and hang out,but since ive been going out with him again my dad and his g/f wont let me go over there. they dont trust me, but i have never given them a reason not to, its not like me and my b/f sit around and make out all day,ya know? They said if i want to see him he has to come over here.but i want to go to his house i miss it.lol and ive tried talking to my dad and his girlfriend but they dont understand and i just cant win.
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Alright then, you know what you should do? Let your boyfriend come over to your house for a couple times, and DONT DO SEXUAL STUFF INFRONT OF YOUR PARENTS! Do cute stuff, like watch movies, play boardgames, or just talk you know? Once your parents see that you guys really do like eachother and dont do sexual stuff, then they will start to trust you back. Although, don't totally deprive eachother, when he's about to leave, give him a small peck so your parents know that your not just acting prude infront of them. Don't sneak over to his house, because sure you'll get away with it for a lil tiny while but your parents WILL eventually find out. And they will respect you more if they realize you listened to them. Good luck
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maybe.. i dont know if your mom is still in the picture but ask her? Lol.. and if she still has a say in what you do then yaa ask her. Lol.. also tell your dad you'll have him come to your house a couple of times but ask him if you can eventually go to hIs? Lol.. or you can always tell him your going to a friends house and (go) and then you guys can walk to his house for a short time.. lol if he calls ne 1 at the house have them say you went for a walk.
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xoxo
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Ya know my parents were the same way with my boyfriend and I. I know you miss it but you need to invite him over a little more often just so your parents can get to know him better so they build up more trust and there more confertable with you going over there all the time. Then before you know it they`ll be letting you over there again. It works trust me. Just have them talk to your boyfriend a little, you know small conversations here and there. Good luck.
xO.Carrie
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I see that r fighting the age old topic of boyfriend vs. parents.
The first thing you need to do is set up a good method of communication with your parents. It is obivious that this boy has done something that your father does not approve of. This would explain why he let you go to house before and not now.
The only way you are going to determine what this is, is by talking to your father. Despite what my fellow adivce givers have told you, do not try to convice you father by throwing cheap arguements like "why do you and your girlfriend get to make out?". This will only make the situation worse and only make your father angry. Talking calmy like an adult will help you acheive your goal faster.
Just remember, you have to try to see the situation through your father's eyes. He is just trying to do what's best for you. Parent's can be confusing and difficult to stand at times but trust me, fighting certain issues (especially boys) can sometimes make things worse.
The best thing you can do is talk to your father. If you really love your boyfriend and want to see him, you will bring him over to your house. By doing this not only will your father see you as responsible, but it will also give him a chance to get to know your boyfriend better.
Good Luck
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i think maybe you could bring him ova and show your dad and his g/f that he is a really great guy and he respects you. Then mayb once he trusts him more your dad + g/f will let you go ova his house. If not tell that you really like him and talk one on one with them about da situation.
hope it helps!
xO.
Brittni
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this may sound weird but tell him what yall do then..juss be like ok all we do is make-out you and your gilrfriend do it too no big deal..but he dont want you bein with someone right now maybe??,..or maybe when yall broke up your boyfriend gave him a reason not to like him...think about the possiblitys and ask them why not?!
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