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What Do I Get Him?
I'm one of the very <i>few</i> people that are blessed with a hard to buy for boyfriend. I'm sure you've already guessed what my question is. What the heck do I buy for him for Christmas? I've spent countless hours pondering over the subject. This past week we went shopping. We were at Sam Goody when he found these extremely rare Linkin Park cd's. He and I are both very big fans of Linkin Park. Anyway, he didn't have quite enough money to buy them. So, I offered to buy them for Christmas. He refused. He has Linkin Park shirts, Linkin Park hoodies, shoes, almost every Linkin Park cd imaginable. He likes NCSU (Y'all from North Carolina know who) and the Carolina Hurricanes. He's an outdoorsy type person (he canoes, hikes, plays sports) as am I. Everything I've asked him about he either already has or refuses to let me buy it. So, what the heck am I supposed to do? Any ideas/suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated.
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Even if he does refuse a gift, buy it for him because it could mean that he really wants it but he feels its to expensive for you to buy it for him? Otherwise ask him to tell you a few things he would like for christmas and then all you have to do is get one of them, but if he really likes linkin park i would deffintly get him something that has to do with Linkin Park or whatever hes interested in, Goodluck, because i know guys are so hard to buy for!
-Megan*
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Tickets to Linkin Park? Maybe, I'm not sure. I'm not so hot myself with giving presents. Or something from the CArolina Hurricanses. Or something sweet and an inside joke kind of thing. And whatever you buy don't ask him bc he won't say ok until it's down to a card.
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if he likes to fish get him some cool fish catching lures or you could get him some movies he likes or you could gte him those cds but he could have already bought them but try to give him something thoughtful.
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I'm sure whatever you buy him he'll love it :) I think you should get the Linkin Park CDs for him if you are able to afford them... he's not gonna get mad cos you bought him a gift that he obviously wanted is he? I'm not sure what your guy is into... but most of my friends are guys. I've bought clothes, CDs, DVDs, posters, concert tickets, computer games, etc etc for them before. Anything he needs or wants in his sports interests? I know its so hard to buy for guys.. me and my friends are super open and just tell each other what we want. Here's an idea- maybe if he won't let you buy the CD's you can buy him a voucher so he can do it himself? Hm.. that's a little impersonal for a boyfriend though isn't it? Wow... this is tough! Maybe take him somewhere, do something nice for him, surprise him with a night in. Or ask him! Sorry I can't be of more help... Good luck!
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Get him something that you know he likes, even though he refuses to let you get it for him. The only reason your boyfriend is refusing is because he doesn't want you to spend all of your money on him..HE wants to take care of YOU..and by you buying him even a christmas present, it makes him feel as if YOU'RE taking care of HIM,and some guys hate that feeling. My boyfriend is the same way. so, get him the linkin park CD's ....chances are he really wants them.
good luck !! get back to me and lemme know how it goes
-aSh
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just buy him something that you know he really wants that he refuses to aloow you to get it for him.
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