Question Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 10:41 pm
ok 15/f...my boyfriend just recently started smoking weed well we dont go to the same skool so we only see eachother 4 out of 7 days....so its realy special wehn we get 2 see eachother....well as he was walking me to where i get picked up...he started smoking...he knows i hate it....i just got really mad and started walking ahead of him...he put it away and was like sry im really sry and he stopped and i was being really bitchy and he tryed to hold my hand and i moved away and put them in my pockets...n i didnt even say bye to him when i left....i didnt hug him or even kiss him...i didnt say nething i jsut left!....and i wouldnt look @ him or walk near him....and he was like ill call u tomrrow and i wasl ike dont bother...and i just left....i feel really bad...i mean he was wrong smoking infront of me knownin i dont lyke it...but he apologized n put it away and i was saying mean hurtful stuff to him
btw we been together for 13months...=\...do u think i shuld call him? and apologize?? wat do i say?? (this happened last nite)
sullivanstreet answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:48 pm: you should definatly call him and apoligize but also make sure somewhere in your conversation he mentions that he is sorry for even bringing out the weed and smoking it infront of you [ sullivanstreet's advice column | Ask sullivanstreet A Question ]
JJbaYbe answered Friday November 19 2004, 5:37 pm: call him n apologize but also try n persuade him not to smoke weed naymoreso it doesnt happen again n hell live a long life n b healthy n stuff.hop i helped
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dinoold answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:16 am: ok..it is illegal to do this..what if he was robbing stores..would you still go out wiht him? plus if he gets busted do you think your paresnt are going to think you never did it.
Drugs are for losers..if he lvoes the weed more than you..well dump him..ok...see love should be BEFORE any kind of illegal garbage..i Know you love him..but if he loves the drugs more...well i would find a guy who would PUT me first...
Derfel answered Friday November 19 2004, 6:30 am: Hi – well I think he probably got the message – where you too harsh…. Well maybe a little but at least you’re not taking any nonsense. The important question is – is this worth loosing your him over, I would say not and I think you agree. I get the feeling by what you say you have something really quite special hear. Call him, the two of you make up and enjoy your time together.
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sunshine1030 answered Friday November 19 2004, 12:11 am: well, considering he did appologize and stop, and you were still being rude, yes i would say you owe him an appology. just make sure that he knows that just because you're appologizing doesn't mean it's ok for him to smoke in front of you again. i would call him and just be like hey look im sorry that i got so upset at you the other day, i just really don't like it when you smoke around me, and you know that. i know i overreacted a little, and im sorry. but just in the future, would u mind not smoking in front of me? that should do the trick. hope it works out! [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
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