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Confused....
I'm really confused at the moment. I have this friend. We have been friends for about 8 months. But since January me and him have become really close. I have had loads of friends that are guys but I am his first friend whose a girl. We are always hanging round in college together. People seem to be getting the wrong idea. Anyway a few days ago we were in some real quiet place and he said he was confused to whether he liked me in that way or not. So he tried to kiss me. I didn’t want to because I thought it might change our friendship. I thought it might ruin it. In the end we kissed. It didn’t change anything. I still don't feel for him in that way and he doesn’t feel for me in that way. But then yesterday we kinda kissed again. I don't know what to do. We don’t like eachother in that way so why do we keep doing this. I feel bad afterwards but we aren't hurting anyone. He hasn’t got a girlfriend and I haven’t got a boyfriend. Is this wrong?
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Mwuuhahahahaha, wow i'm in such a weird mood, and its like 1;30am! Sad eh?
Dude like I said before, one of you will get jelouse of the other if he gets a G.f, and like wise! And i know you two must like each other aleast a bit, otherwise you two wouldn't have evn concidered doing this!
So you two better sort it out before I step in, ok!
Dont worry i might just end up throwing potatos randomly, hehe.
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.......
take care lil sis.
xxx
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no it is not wrong you have mixed emotions and trying to find out how you feel about each other
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no no no its not wrong. this is acctually a tough question. maybe you do like each other in that way a little but you are both fighting it back.
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Your not doing anything wrong. If you both feel comfortable with the realationship you already have then I would keep it that way. Don't feel pressured to change anything because it's your desicion not anyone elses. Good luck!
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Your not hurting eachother, but you don't love/like eachother. If you want to hang out with him, do so with other peers with you two. Remember, this is new for him....so...don't screw around? anyway, i hope you two will still be friends for more time to come!
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NO but if you dont like him you need to tell him
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I think you both may be feeling a bit lonely, no boyfriend, no girlfriend......It's inevitable. If you think it's wrong and you truly want to hang onto this guy as a friend, don't hang out with him alone. Only hang out in a group.
Smooching with each other and not wanting it to lead to anything more can lead to feelings hurt in the long run and may lead to a severed friendship.
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If i were you I would take some time out from him. If it feels wrong, some deeper part of you phycie is probably trying to tell you to stop. So take some time out from him, hang with your other mates for a while :)
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