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how many fingers do i use to finger my self? because i want it to feel good but i dont want it to hert? how many???
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hmm well however many you want.
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you should use all of them...
I also suggest you get a jar of vasaline, and a shop-vac, or a vacuum cleaner with a hose attachment, and carefully insert the hose, coated with vasaline, and then turn the unit on.
Habanero oil is also good to use.
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Start with one. Like most things, starting small is good. :)
Other bits of advice:
* make sure your fingernails are trimmed short and smooth. You don't want to scratch your insides by accident.
* wash your hands before and after - including under the nails.
* stimulate yourself in other ways until your "wet" before inserting anything - or use lube.
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Well, only you can determine that. Different peopole have different slants on what feels "good" to them. For them it may be two, where you may find that you are totally satisfied with only one. Some women find that it's not necessary to insert ANY fingers. They find adequate stimulation externally by gently caressing or massaging the "lips". Take your time, get to know yourself and YOu determine what's best for you, noone else can.
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why don't you get a vibrater instead of you fingers
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It really all comes down to personal preferences. I know some people who only like one either because anything else hurts or because they simply prefer it that way. Others tend to like two and from what I can discern this tends to the most common. Then again, some like three or more. I know one person who regularly uses four, but this is an exception.
On the other end of the spectrum is fisting, which involves the entire fist going into the vagina. This tends to be more of a kinky/fetish activity and is not necessarily something regularly performed. If you think this is something that interests you I would suggest getting more information on the subject.
As well, I'm told that most women tend to prefer more in the way of clitoral stimulation rather than actual penetration when they masturbate. Allegedly the most common method is to rub the clitoris or the clitoral hood either in a circular or up-down motion.
In the end though, I'm not a woman, I'm merely going by what I've been told and read about. The most important thing to do is simply enjoy yourself and do what feels good to you.
Now it does occur to me that you might be a guy asking about doing this to a woman, in such situations I would suggest simply asking what she wants. It's the best way to give her what will be most pleasing. If this doesn't work out, however, start small. Use one finger to start and start at the outside before moving into the vagina itself. If there seems to be enough room and she is enjoying it slowly add another finger. Be forewarned however that it can hurt slightly, especially if the additional finger is not lubricated properly first. Some woman have problems with the insertion of additional digits in the middle of things when they likely would not have had you started with more.
While related, using dildo, vibrators and other sex toys as aids are another topic altogether. I do suggest that as far as they are concerned to not try to improvise. Not everything should go in the vagina! If you must a carrot or other vegetable appropriately shaped to your desired size is generally preferable. Try to avoid things with sugar though as they could negatively affect the vagina possibly leading to yeast infections or worse.
If you have any further questions, feel free to ask me.
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pervert... Ims orry I dont want to start thigns I should of just ingored this...
uggh "how many you feel comfortable with" I cnat believe i just answered this...
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