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I went to this party and I'm 15 and I drank but I only had one beer and than I woke up the next morning in my bed. After that for the next couple of weeks I got sick daily, I started to get worried and had my friend buy a pregnancy test for me and it turned out that I was pregnant. I don't know how that's possible because I'm a virgin. But I can't remember what happened that night at the party. I don't know what to tell my parents.
~Pregnant?~
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ask friends what happened.. maybe they no.. could you have been slipped a drug in your drink? check around ask.. what happened.. n if u are pregnant good luck with the parentals
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some one may have slipped you a ruffie when you put down your drink during the party. the drug is designed to make you fall asleep and to not recall whatever happens while you are sleeping. tell your parents the truth, that you were at the party and you blacked out. they'll be angry, yes, but if you were raped they will be more concerned for your health. also, go to a hospilat and get a rape kit done, or see a gynocologist.
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Find someway to get to a doctor. Planned Parenthood can probably help you, if not, I'm sure they know who can. A doctor can find out for sure if your pregnant and/or if you are sick.
Tell your parents the truth. That you are asking "what" to tell your parents and not "if" to tell your parents lets me know that you know your parents love you and that you can talk them. Which is good. They will very likely be upset - but it's not so much that they are angry with you as that they are horrified that this has happened to their baby.
Despite their reactions, I want to let you know that it's not the end of the world. Once you go to a doctor and know where you stand as far as pregnancy and diseases go, you can gather information and make informed choices. Please post again if you have more questions.
Also, it *is* possible to get pregnant without having sex. It's less likely, but if there was semen (cum) near your vagina, it's possible for sperm to have entered. Not very likely, but it has happened before.
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your probbubly not but just in case dont tell untell you know for shure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok i am serious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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YOU MUST OF HAD SEX AT THIS PARTY BUT CANT REMEMBER ANY THINK FROM IT,YOU MUSYT TELL YOUR PARENTS YOU WILL NEED THERE SUPPORT YOU CANT DO THIS ON YOUR OWN AT YOUR AGE TELL THEM YOU DID A STUPID THING AND SIT AND TELL THEM WHAT YOU CAN REMEMBER ,I HOPE THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM THIS NOT TO DRINK UNTILL YOUR 18 AND NOT UNTILL YOU CAN HANDLE IT YOU NEED TO BE GROWN UP NOW AND TELL YOUR PARENTS ITS NOT GOING TO GO AWAY ,GOOD LUCK
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You were probably drugged. Maybe when you looked away or put down the glass, somebody put something in your glass. *The Date and Rape Drug* Maybe. Decide if you want to have the baby or put him/her up for adoption. I recomend adoption because, yes, technically, abortion is killing an innocent being which I am against but it IS your decision. Tell your parents you had no control over what happened, you knew that one beer wouldn't make you drunk and thought it was ok. Tell them it's not your fault you got pregnant and ask them for advice, don't put it off any longer, tell them, they'd be more mad if you wait awhile. I'm very sorry for what happened. If you want to keep the baby, watch Gilmore Girls, Lorelai had Rory at 16 and look where they turned out, Rory going to Yale and Lorelai running her own inn. I know that that's highly unlikely to happen to you, but that show'll give you inspiration if you decide to keep that baby.
Love and Luck
~Colleen M. S.
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How much do you remember about the party other than having the one beer? Who gave it to you? Was it open already or did you have to open it? If you ARE pregnant, and you ARE indeed a virgin, then you may have had something slipped to you in your drink. As sad as it sounds, it's avrey common happening these days, especially when the drinkers aren't of age, and quite often rely on others for their alcoholic consumption.
I would suggest you schedule a vaginal exam. They would be able to determine if there was any sexual contact. Talk to friends.....if you were drugged, believe me, someone knows something. try to find out all you can to protect both you and others from going through this again.
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i bet you had more than one drink. or someone put something in your drink and then took advantage of you. or the one drink was to strong. and your obviously not a virgin anymore.
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Oh, this is terrible. There is no way you got that drunk from one beer. I am with the others. It is very likely you have been drugged and raped. Please please tell you parents everything. They aren't going to be happy, but they are the ones who can help you deal with the situation. Try to remember who served you the drink. Did you pour it yourself? Did you leave your drink alone for any amount of time? Did anyone "bump" into you and distract you?
I hope other people see this and learn from your situation. Preaching isn't going to help now. Absolutely tell you parents everything you told us.
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just explain the truth and just tell them, yeah they are going to get upset,but after a little thinking time they will learn to work it out with you. if you decide you want to adopt the baby out will you please consider me. i have been trying to have a baby since i was 17. i have polycystic ovarian diesease. i am 30 yr. i live in tennesee, and own my own home and land in a very quite and prospurse neighbor hood. we have lived her for almost 6 yr. i have a 3 bedroom 2 bath home, and would be very happy to fill the 2 extra bedrooms with life i can participate in. i will never lie to the child if she every haves any questions about her life. i will never keep you from seeing the child. please consider me.
Sincerly,
Brandi Stenberg
brandistenberg@yahoo.com
p.s.
i am very sorry for what has happened,but one way or another it will work out. need to talk just e-mail me.
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The one beer you had might have been drugged. Did you see the person open it? If you didn't chances are you were raped. I would definetly tell your parents. You need help and you need it quickly if you want to catch who did this to you and/or if you want a abortion.
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I dislike this stories...:(.
Is that all you felt the next morning? was there "anything" else on your bed? At some places, or some people, (they) have things that they can put in a drink that will just make you...forget and just...strange. it migh have been in your drink when you bought it, or when you put it down, someone who was WITH or looking at you from afar put it in your drink. this is why i say "whenever you put a drink down, order another one."
as DX said, work out. Eat healthy food....but make up your mind if you want the baby aborted or not. Th baby inside you will start it's "life" by three months, and that's the amount of time "those" places give you to decide...i perfer two months and a half...
whatever you do, tell your parents, but also say you might have been drugged. if you find the man (bastard) kick his...behind. and report him. don't let him brainwash you. don't let anyone brainwash you.
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Well ask the people you went with what happened,might be you had sex drunk.Then when you find out,try telling your parents
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Are you sure your beer wasn't spiked? Its highly unusual for one beer to make you so paraletic you forget what you've done. when you woke up the next morning, did you feel any discomfort 'down there'?
I think you have to explain to your 'rents what you explained to us: that you have no clue how this happned. You suspect you were drug raped as you only had the one drink and rember nothing else.
I hope for your sake that your 'rents are understaning and suportive.
Your next step is to try and work out if you will have the thing aborted or what you will do with it after you hav it.
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