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Question Posted Sunday February 22 2004, 5:53 pm

i'm 10 and just got pregnat. young?... i know! Should i tell my parents?



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honesty answered Saturday July 15 2006, 10:02 pm:
if you dont tell your parents whats gonna happen when you have the baby you need to tell your parents so they can give you tips and help you

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SiiMpLiiAmAziiNx0 answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 9:30 pm:
um...yes you should most deffiantly tell your parents? i mean unless you want them to find out another way n u get in alot of trouble...how did u manage to get pregnant at 10? ..weli no how ..but yeah.?

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jg answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 1:03 pm:
ok look ya your real young.you shouldnt be havin sex @ 10 yrs old.you really have no other option but to tell your parents.they are the only ones that can help you.if the guy is 18 and over and it was your decision then dont tell your parents his real age.cuz he could go to jail 4 like a long time.

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77jessica77 answered Monday May 10 2004, 9:08 am:
u have no other option

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Lia123 answered Saturday April 17 2004, 1:59 am:
i'm sorri but ur pretty damn stupid!


ur a skank bimbo slut i can go on for hours!

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rapidash78 answered Thursday March 11 2004, 10:45 pm:
ur 10?

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Here-To-Help answered Friday March 5 2004, 7:47 pm:
And you're lying aren't you?
you freaking pshyco...I'm sorry...but if you're lying about something like this then just leave advicenators...
and if YOU'RE NOT LYING about this, then just...ew. YES YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR PARENTS!

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jbdreamer answered Tuesday February 24 2004, 10:38 am:
Yes Tell your parents and see a doctor! Having a baby is extreamly dangrous at your age, not only for the baby but for you as well. Your body in not fully developed enough to have a baby. Disscuss your options with a professional soon. I do not agree with abortion, but for a girl your age it may be best for your own safty. And yes you need your parents support in this, becase if you have the baby they are going to have a lot of responsibility for it too, a girl your age will not be able to support a family. Get help!

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chaos answered Tuesday February 24 2004, 9:45 am:
Who did this?!? Yes, you should tell your parents. Whoever did this may have committed a crime. Your parents need to help you. I doubt your body can even handle a child.

And don't listen to anyone but your parents about this situation. Abortion and adoption is a question your parents need to answer.

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AskSpanky answered Monday February 23 2004, 5:00 pm:
Well, DUH, tell your parents. You think you can keep it a secret or something? I'd say go for abortion. Sure, it's murder and all that blab, but you probably aren't physically or mentally ready to have a baby.

And it's pregNANT. Not 'nat'.

Lunarad, it's possible she's pregnant. My friend started her period when she was 9 years old. She had size C breasts by the 6th grade. Now she is like an F or something. She's bigger than DD.

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lunarad answered Monday February 23 2004, 8:41 am:
Erm. you're not pregnant.

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PepeLePew answered Monday February 23 2004, 2:34 am:
What made you do that? And if you didn't wanted to...then it's rape. If it's rape, report the man. if it wasn't...what made you think of such thing? YOUR SO YOUNG. I'm 13...it's like me taking care of a two year old.

abortion could be one way to go, but then again, your too young. tell your parents. they will be mad, but at least you were honest and bold enough to tell them.

when the time comes, you probably have to give your CHILD up for adoption, sadly..

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BewareOfCat2 answered Monday February 23 2004, 12:36 am:
Your ten?!?! Pregnat?!?!?! What have you been doing!?!?! OF course tell your parents or else you will be stuck with a 2 year old at age 13!

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Vina answered Monday February 23 2004, 12:33 am:
Well, dear, Yes you should. No one should be angry or disappointed in you. You've only been a walking, talking person for about 8 years.

You don't have enough experience in the world yet to deal with this without help. But even so, a girl CAN get pregnant at your age, and if you really are, please don't keep something so hard to yourself.

Again, tell your parents. If this is simply not possible, tell another adult that you love and trust. The adults will be better able to handle this. They will likely be hurt and angry that this happened to you, but no one should be angry AT you. Be brave, be strong, be honest.

You are facing a trial very early in your life...but don't let it bring you down too horribly. Your story is just beginning.

Vina

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Turc answered Sunday February 22 2004, 11:53 pm:
This is mad craziness. When I was ten, I had a vague idea of how babies were made, but I was not gutsy enough to ask anyone and I really didn't want to know. I thought the whole aspect of having sex was kinda gross, and sometimes I still do- which makes it perfectly clear that I am not mature enough for it yet. Which is fine.

But anyway.

Wow, you got yourself into a fine mess. I can only say that the best thing to do IS to tell your parents, because you will definitely need to be checked out by a doctor. Someone as young as you is probably not in the best condition physically to deliver a child, and while I do not advocate abortion just for the hell of it, having this baby might not be the best thing for you. Definitely let your parents know, and good luck to you.

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sandy2004 answered Sunday February 22 2004, 10:46 pm:
yes i have a 12 yr old son so i can imagine your tender age yes you should most defintely have this baby and you should most definitely tell your mom she will be there for you and take it from me you cant hide it for long take care good luck

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Logic-Man answered Sunday February 22 2004, 9:53 pm:
I see someone already decided to answer abortion. DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM! IT IS MURDER!!! I mean not to be harsh, I feel sorry for you I do, tremondously, but indeed you must tell your parents. The question at hand is are you pregnant as fault of your own? If it is, my pity slightly decreases, but in fact my answer remains constant. Tell your parents the truth. Have the child, and make the father pay what money he can. I will not hear any talk of murdering an innocent child! If you tell your parents they may help you and support you in this. Never forget they love you.

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Kira_Valoka answered Sunday February 22 2004, 9:40 pm:
you should definitely tell your parents, if you dont tell them now theyll know later(and probably get angry that you hid it from them!).
I'm really sorry to hear you are in such a situation. but at 10 years old; well, I've never heard of such a thing, actually! 15 and up is common now, but 10! wow, I'm sorry
anyways, I'm not gonna ask how it happened, since the answer to that is obvious; but I will suggest this:
1)I assume you know, but make sure you know who "did it". He cannot just drop his responsibility for your problem, seeing as he is half of it.
2)try to get help from your parents. you may think this is unlikely, as you would be a disgrace to them (probably), but unless they are cruel, they definitely won't disown you or anything like that!
3)I am personally against abortion, but this situation... man. Its enough to make a liberal into a conservative!
hope I helped a little!!

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help_me answered Sunday February 22 2004, 8:07 pm:
YES
go to a doctor and get something to kill the baby. harsh, i know but they are going to find out anyway, and they'll be madder then than if you tell them now.

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