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HeY .. my name iis Haley* ! ii`m a Freshman at Williamsville High School ! && ii love to shopp ;; uhm. Abercrombie & Hollister are the best stores evverrr ;; talking on my cell phone!. . like all the tiime;; AIM ;; guyz!!;; && just hanging out ! Plz don't ask stupid questions that ii really don't care about .. well if you do ill just block you .. so yea ..

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ok well im thinking of starting softball again, but now since i have my period it will be alittle different. i dont want to use pads because its too shall i say messy? but ive never actually used a tampon before, so i was wondering if i could have some info about it, and how do i get some with out asking my mom.. cuz thats always a hassle.
i rate, thanks for those who help

if you dont want to ask your mom for a tampon then you could always ask a friend for one..or maybe a close relative . .? or you could even go into the bathrooms at school and buy some !

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I want to try out for cheerleading. I have never cheered before a day in my life. I just want to do it now, even though I will be tryin out when I am a sophmore cheering my junior year. Need some tips and fast. Do I need to workout? Please help.

Yeah . . work out and maybe join gymnastics..they will help you on your splits and that kind of stuff..but yeah working out will help..& maybe get together with sum of the other people that have been cheering for awhile and they can help ya ! good luck

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What is the average cost of gymnastic classes? Thanks in advance!

it all depends on what kind you are going to ...like a cheerleading class..or an all around class...but normally around 47-50 dollars a month !

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13/f
there is this guy that i really really like but when ever i talk to him, i tense up and sound like im a socially retarted moran. anny tips? thanx i rate

Just pretend like your talking to one of your friends..And bring up something that you know you can keep a conversation going . . Good luck !

x0o - haley!

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okay..well im going out with this boy..and im a freshman and he's a senior...and all my friends think he's ugly...but i dont really think he's all that bad...but i think he's more nice than ne thing..& they all make fun of me for going out with him..should ikeep going out with him ..or dump him ? plz help me...i rate high for good answers!

signed,
Lost & confuised

Well it doesnt matter if ne one else thinks he's hott .. or even what other people think about him . . But thats good that ur not oging out w/ him just becuase u think he's hott. . & deff. dont dump him . . he's prolly a Really nice guy !

x0o haley*

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Im new at this school and there is this guy i really really like and i was somewhere with all my friends and i heard that he only gave me alot of attention because he wanted to get into my pants.....but i really like him but hes a junior and i'm a freshman and idk if he'll try to take advantage of me but if i go out with him people will get mad at me......wat should i do?!?

Just go along with things. . get to know him better before you go out w/ him tho. . and if your freinds get mad . . then thats there fault . they'll get over it . . But if he does try to take advantage of you then stop hanging out w/ him . . Good Luck*

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Okay, i have this friend & she is kinda considered a whore & i get called a whore just because i hang out w. her & i don't no what to do . . but she really hasn't done anything w. a guy . . but just because she is going out w. this guy that is a freshman in college & she is a freshman in high school she gets called a whore? What do i do about this?

um..well if you dont want to be called a whore then dont hang out with her. . and i dont know why she gets called a whore if she dont do things w/ guys? but just be her friend..dont argue w/ her about not going out w/ him

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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know

is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?

i will rate 5s because i really want to know...

umm..its kinda like a guy fingering you..and i guess it could pop ur cherry if it went up far enought..

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i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing?

Dont worry..you havent stoped growing. . i mean im 14 and only 5 foot..You just not have hit your groth spurt yet! and if you have..then look at the bright side..being short is fun!

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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!

umm yeah i know how that is ! lol but alot of me n my freinds use like a tampon n then put a pad on also..its just for extra protection!
Good luck! and try it !

..haley*

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My mom is friend's with this lady [40] who is gay. You wouldn't think she was but she told me. Well, I go to work with the lady and when i [13] sleep over we sleep in the same bed because i dont like sleeping on the couch. Does that make me gay because i've heard if you sleep with a gay person thas makes you gay? 13/f .. [ i dont think it is true ]

and are you born gay?

nOo..That wouldnt make you gay. . And no people arnt born gay . . Gay is just what they want to be ?

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okay...this guy told me that i had sex appeal today and i dont know if i should have taken it as a compliment or an insult.

so could someone tell me what sex appeal is and if its a compliment or and insult.

BTW: im 13/f and i rate 5 for NONsmartass answers.

Yeah. . . Thats a good thing..i mean unless you don think he's hott or nice or ne thing. . But basicly it means he thinks ur hott or attratictive

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i'm 10 and just got pregnat. young?... i know! Should i tell my parents?

um...yes you should most deffiantly tell your parents? i mean unless you want them to find out another way n u get in alot of trouble...how did u manage to get pregnant at 10? ..weli no how ..but yeah.?

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am i weird? i masterbate with anything and everything i can. ( and electric toothbrush, stuffed animals, my dog, ext.) heve i crossed the line?

um..yeah..if i were you i wouldnt masterbate with an eletric toothbrush..thats kinda werid ( nasty) and it can do stuff inside of you..

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ok i haven't had my period yet but i have a question. When ur having ur period and your swimming, what do you wear- pads of tampons so u won't leak?

Most people wear tampons just because they work better and they dont leak . . But since you'r 11 you might want to talk to your mom about it. . But i would use a tampon just because they work alot better

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i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!

No you cannot be pregnant, But since you Just started then you have to give it some time to get on track. Or if you are involved in sports or alot of activites then that may be the cause...but dont worry nothing's wrong..

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um well im in a fight with my 2 best friends, and there mad at me because im going to go out with an older guy, but he's only 16 And he's really nice, but he's also known to do bad stuff? what should i do ? go out w/ him or just let my friends get over it?

HmM..I know how ur feeling . . But if your friends are going to get mad at you for going out with someone b/c he's older then thats not right. They might just be trying to look out for you. But if they are still going ot be mad then i say just give them time to get over it and go out w/ him... b/c if there really your best friends they'll get over it

Hope i helped a lil?

..haleY*

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I am babysitting for this wild kid on Friday evening. He is a good boy age 7. BUT, he is everywhere at once! Any ideas on what kind of calming things I can do to entertain him so he isn't running through the house like a little maniac? I can just see him falling into sharp corners and things!

Well to keep him settled down ask him if he wants to watch a moive or some thing, or maybe go outside. And tell him if he doesnt calm down then your just going to have to tell his mom?

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How do you know when you really love someone? Is there an age limit on love? How do you tell the differance between love and infatuation? Please help me, I really need to know answers and please don't say "you just know" because that really is no help. I'll rate good answers. Thank you so much.

Well, there's not an age limit on love. But to actually love someone then you have to be willing to give up anything for them. And when you love someone , you never wanna be away from them. Sry idk if that's the kinda answer your looking for but i hope i helped a lil*?

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14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?

- confused & clueless

Well if your not ready to do it with him then dont, i mean i know how that feels lol but if he's going to break up with you because you wont do stuff with him then thats not right . . Sryy i hope i helped a little*

..haley*

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