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What to do??
Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
What sould i do?
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1. its never to early for love
2. it is kinda weird that you love someone you dont talk to
3. if he pays no attention to you, why did you start going out in the first place
4. if i were you i would ask him if he even still liked me
5. i also would talk to him about being just friends for a while then going back to gf/bf status
6. when ou are in love, yoU are blind, basicly, even people in the most unhealthy relationships dont really think is right to break up.
you should tell him that you are starting to feel ignored and that should be the wake up call he needs. hope i helped!
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Make out with him, then tie him to a bed, then run off with his clothes.
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i know you don't want to hear it
but it might be time to move on =(
i know it will be tough but just try to go out and talk to other guys, you never know you might fall just as hard for another boy you see!
I hope everything works out ♥
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tell him! i mean your best friends you should be able to talk to him bout anything gl
much love
x3 mari
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If you want it to last you're going to have to have a long talk about things. You need to ask him why he is paying more attention to your friends than you. You need to express your worry that things are going downhill fast. I hope you get it worked out. :)
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sometimes i feel like my boyfriend has gotten too comfertable too....you just need to talk to him about it!! just be like yea i want you to be comfertable with me and im happy that you are but we've only been together for 1.5 months and it seems like you are too sure that i am going to be here with you forever!! you know i love you and want to be with you but we are dating..we arent engaged and we arent married!!! there is a chance that this wont work out..even though i want it too!! i think sometimes you act like you are way too comfertable with everything going on and dont really take time to think that you might lose me. i feel like i feel that im soo lucky to have you and you dont feel the same way about me..because we are both lucky to have eachother...
be prepared because he will ask for examples of how he is "too comfertable"
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Ok, first you need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him. You need to explain how you feel how you two are going downhill and you two never talk anymore. Make sure he understands exactly what you think is wrong. THen put both your heads together and try think of a solution about whether or not you two still wanna be together. If you don't get that far, at least try and figure out why it is that you two don't talk anymore. Hope this helps.
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Whether he likes it or not, you really need to talk to him about it all and you really need to tell this guy how you feel. If he doesn't have anything to say make him say something that relevent to what you discussed. If it's stupid, I suggest you just accept the fact that it just wasn't meant to be with him and I know that you don't want to hear this. It can be hard but you need to accept it or be prepared to accept it because if he's as bad as you described him, then you deserve much better. Talk to him and if you don't like his response, break up with him before he breaks up with you. I know it seems immature and all but at least you know you did it all on your terms. Find out and trust your instincts. Sometimes the heart wants things that aren't necessarily best for you. You'll see that later on. Hope I was some help and have a nice day. And goodluck too.
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