what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance...
Lacy answered Monday June 20 2005, 8:27 pm: E-mail him a lot and tell him about your day. It means a lot to people when they get friendly e-mails. Gifts are fun to send to, and even more fun to get. Make plans every once in a while to get together and to spend the day with him. Showing that you look forward to spending time with him will show you care. And you can always tell him you love him and will really miss him... [ Lacy's advice column | Ask Lacy A Question ]
aetherionknight answered Sunday June 19 2005, 10:34 pm: What you should do is call him, at least once everyday. Don't keep talking on and on for hours, cuz he has other stuff to do and parents get mad, but call up, even if it's just to say hi. Always tell him about your day and ask him about his. If he has a cell phone, tell him to turn it on vibe at night and leave him cute messages for when he wakes up in the morning. At the most leave him two, not like five or anything. Hope this helps. [ aetherionknight's advice column | Ask aetherionknight A Question ]
ParadiseAngel answered Sunday June 19 2005, 9:36 pm: Hey pumpkin, just make sure you two always keep and touch and he feel for you as much as you do for him and its for real and not for fake. Always support him and call him, email, mailing, you know the usual.See him as much as he can or you can, since its long distance and if its a chance you both can meet and be together, take it. My long distance relationship I had didnt work out b/c the guy wasnt as commited to the whole thing like i was, but good luck to you both im sure it will work out. Luv ya pumpkin. Let me know how it goes [ ParadiseAngel's advice column | Ask ParadiseAngel A Question ]
pinkfairy1773 answered Sunday June 19 2005, 5:57 pm: aww thats so sweet of you. ok this might not be most expensivest or even the coolest but most meaningful and romantic can come out of HEART not the money... you of course knew that =)
get together with him one day. and prepare a special HANDMADE heart that you will make ...
just go to michels or any store and make a cute heart and stuff
and if you are good at cooking, make a romantic dinner. you know just go set up the light dim and candel =)
and just being 2 of you and speak from heart. and he will understand it... trusting your heart and talking from heart can be the biggest gift that a person can recieve~
brittany_x31 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 3:32 pm: what you can do to keep distance is by emails get his email adress and email him stuff and he can email you back another way yall can keep in touch give him your phone number and tell him to call that and get his new number off of colar id those are ways i keep distance with people I know that are far away from me
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 3:28 am: Just talk to him all the time, every night. Ask how his day was and everything. Be true to him and be yourself. Dont cheat or hang out with other guys.. The realtionship is going to be tough let me tell you. i did that last year, and i honestly love him. We barely talk now, but it got super tough. Its gunna be an emotional ride for you. But just be tough and if you love him stick with him and make sure he knows that you'll always be there even if you dont live by him. good luck hope things work out for the best<3 [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
Xsweetpeax26 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 1:54 am: i had a long relationship. talk on the phone every night and discuss eachothers day. talk about things that you wish you would have been there for eachother. express through words. another thing you can do that will totally suprise him if you dont do this often. write him a letter telling hoim how much you miss him, and what you feel for him. i gurantee that if you make it through teh long distance thing, your relationshipw ill become stronger and you fill find the time you spend together is much more valuable, and you wont be taking time for granted, like we all usually do. something else you can do is take pictures of your self doing daily activities, and make him a scrap book titled "wish you were here" be creative.
HyperactiveMiss answered Friday June 17 2005, 11:56 pm: I'm sure you know what you're in for...long distance relationships are very tough to deal with. Some couples can't go weekends without seeing each other. So whatever happens, just remember you were in for it and it was worth the risk.
There are lots of things you could do. Keeping in touch is very important. Nowadays there are plenty of ways to do so...like talking on the phone, using instant messangers, posting on online blogs (like xanga.com or myspace.com), sending emails, etc. If you guys are very serious and dedicated about this, be sure to actually see each other in person. Set a number of times you guys should see each other every month or year or something. It will be difficult, but it's essential in keeping your relationship alive. A sweet gesture would be to send him letters. They're definitely not as good as seeing him in person, but at least they give him a nice feeling and seeing your writing is nice.
Other things you probably know are to stay true and honest to him. Don't cheat on him and don't flirt with other guys. If you can't handle him being far away, it's time to face the truth and break up with him. And that's okay, because breaking up is better than finding out someone cheated on the other.
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